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Can you date girl that has alot of guys friends?

no, to many guys = problems 105 46.46%
 
yes, man up bitch! 119 52.65%
 
Total:224

I wouldnt touch her



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d21lewis said:

I wouldnt touch her


Now that i find hard to believe.



d21lewis said:

I wouldnt touch her

lol somehow I knew you would end up here.



Gnizmo said:
Xbbjf9s said:

lol at these statements saying friends don't matter. I don't understand how anyone can deny that friends have impact on relationships, from personal experience and witnessing what a friend is going through I can safely say it does. This is not absolute for all relationships but as a guy I can say that most guys are "friends" with hot girls for a reason. I never said I wanted marry or own her I said talking meaning getting to know her. Anyway, if people can break up over money or video games I can assure they break up over friends.

If you break up over friends then you never had anything resembling a strong relationship. It is the silliest of all reasons. You don't date their friends. Their friends are not dating you. Be civil, and politely avoid each other as much as possible. So long as you give the person time and space to hang out with their friends there will never be a problem.

some people value their friends way to much to the point it can hurt a relationship. I had a gf that invited her friends everytime we went out on a date and she had free time to be with her friends, it got to the point where I had to break it off. Friends like family can influence a relationship, I even asked my two lesbian friends about it and they said "leave that bitch alone" lol. While there is a chance it could be platonic women cheat more than men they just are better at it than us...I wasn't willing to take that risk, my "hoe sense" was tingling lol



poll is kinda close, wonder how many of those votes would stay just for the ass lol. Anyway, I appreciate all the comments get to see this from different angles. Will use this knowledge in the future.



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Xbbjf9s said:

some people value their friends way to much to the point it can hurt a relationship. I had a gf that invited her friends everytime we went out on a date and she had free time to be with her friends, it got to the point where I had to break it off. Friends like family can influence a relationship, I even asked my two lesbian friends about it and they said "leave that bitch alone" lol. While there is a chance it could be platonic women cheat more than men they just are better at it than us...I wasn't willing to take that risk, my "hoe sense" was tingling lol

I have and continue to have friendships so close that they morph into something so bizarre it defies description. What you describe though is not valuing the friends too much. That is valuing the other person in the relationship too little. Friends and family have no real power over a relationship. They do not need to be in a persons life 24 hours a day save for children. If he/she cannot or will not set aside time for you then they don't really care for you that much. Sad, cold, harsh, but true.



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Xbbjf9s said:
NiKKoM said:

As a guy who has a lot of female friends... don't do it.. we can't be trusted!

I used to have alot of femle friends that were straight and it was not pretty lol. Now all my female friends are lesbians and my issues are a thing of the past.


You turned them into lesbians?



From my experience, yes it does matter. If she's hot then most guys are friends with her cuz of hidden intentions. You're right to worry, but i wouldnt judge her completely. For all you know she could be a tomboy, and hates to hang out with other women. I know lots of women like that, and usually it doesn't end well. 

Question is if you do find her trustworthy at all.



I voted no. I don't trust a woman who has more guy friends than girl friends. Deep down, there are insecurity issues and possible, latent lesbianism. I can understand and tolerate being "one of the boys" one day out of the week, but if she is hanging around guys more than girls, then it is a red flag that she has issues with her own gender to the point where she is possibly keeping a stable of guy friends around to use for a booty call once she goes through some rough times.

From my experience, you'll always have one guy friend of hers trying to pull the pathetic "let me listen to your problems pretending to be your psychiatrist, while all I want to do is fuck you" routine. Another will be her gay guy friend who she is always calling to get suggestion on how she can change you into someone more like him. Another will be that ex-boyfriend who wants to double-date and asks you awkward questions during the double-date of "Does she do [fill in the blank] when having sex with you?"

The only real threat out of these types of guy friends is the gay guy friend, not because he wants to have sex, but because he will bombard her with judgments of you which are manageable when the relationship is steady, but exacerbates problems once the relationships hits valleys like every relationship does.

The "wannabe psychiatrist" routine guy friend has 0% chance of wrecking your relationship and is more or less fuel for you two to laugh and make fun of behind his back due to his inabilty to get laid, which is just fodder for laughter and good times between you two.

The ex-boyfriend is an ex for a reason, but he could possibly wreck your relationship if she goes to him when the times get rough.

I am speaking in generalizations and hypotheticals, but all this plays through my mind when I think back on my past relationships.