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I voted no. I don't trust a woman who has more guy friends than girl friends. Deep down, there are insecurity issues and possible, latent lesbianism. I can understand and tolerate being "one of the boys" one day out of the week, but if she is hanging around guys more than girls, then it is a red flag that she has issues with her own gender to the point where she is possibly keeping a stable of guy friends around to use for a booty call once she goes through some rough times.

From my experience, you'll always have one guy friend of hers trying to pull the pathetic "let me listen to your problems pretending to be your psychiatrist, while all I want to do is fuck you" routine. Another will be her gay guy friend who she is always calling to get suggestion on how she can change you into someone more like him. Another will be that ex-boyfriend who wants to double-date and asks you awkward questions during the double-date of "Does she do [fill in the blank] when having sex with you?"

The only real threat out of these types of guy friends is the gay guy friend, not because he wants to have sex, but because he will bombard her with judgments of you which are manageable when the relationship is steady, but exacerbates problems once the relationships hits valleys like every relationship does.

The "wannabe psychiatrist" routine guy friend has 0% chance of wrecking your relationship and is more or less fuel for you two to laugh and make fun of behind his back due to his inabilty to get laid, which is just fodder for laughter and good times between you two.

The ex-boyfriend is an ex for a reason, but he could possibly wreck your relationship if she goes to him when the times get rough.

I am speaking in generalizations and hypotheticals, but all this plays through my mind when I think back on my past relationships.