| Xbbjf9s said: some people value their friends way to much to the point it can hurt a relationship. I had a gf that invited her friends everytime we went out on a date and she had free time to be with her friends, it got to the point where I had to break it off. Friends like family can influence a relationship, I even asked my two lesbian friends about it and they said "leave that bitch alone" lol. While there is a chance it could be platonic women cheat more than men they just are better at it than us...I wasn't willing to take that risk, my "hoe sense" was tingling lol |
I have and continue to have friendships so close that they morph into something so bizarre it defies description. What you describe though is not valuing the friends too much. That is valuing the other person in the relationship too little. Friends and family have no real power over a relationship. They do not need to be in a persons life 24 hours a day save for children. If he/she cannot or will not set aside time for you then they don't really care for you that much. Sad, cold, harsh, but true.
