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SamuelRSmith on 10 October 2010
oldschoolfool said:
SamuelRSmith said:

Ehhh... I think you're putting too much emphasis on looks, I know they do play a part in society, but not as much as you think.

I mean, I'm an ugly cunt (Facebook for proof - http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1646310319 ) - but I'm still quite successful, I can achieve in just about any area that I focus on, I go out with girls, I have a lot of friends, etc. What's most important in life is being confident, the reason I do well despite being ugly? I'm a cocky bastard.

I don't know what to say to help you improve your confidence, I'm sure there's a shit-ton of articles on the web, though. Basically, talk to people, but don't be weird about it. It's hard at first... and you will fall flat on your face the first couple of times, but the more you do it, the better you get. Once you find people that you can "connect" with, you form friends, you start going out more, and you start meeting girls.

Basically, get the roots sorted - confidence, and the rest comes naturally.


confidence is'nt reality. I'm sorry,but I don't believe if I suddenly become super cofident,all these magical things will happen. lol


Fine, don't believe it. Remain in your depressive rut, let's see how that works out...



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oldschoolfool on 10 October 2010
SamuelRSmith said:
oldschoolfool said:
SamuelRSmith said:

Ehhh... I think you're putting too much emphasis on looks, I know they do play a part in society, but not as much as you think.

I mean, I'm an ugly cunt (Facebook for proof - http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1646310319 ) - but I'm still quite successful, I can achieve in just about any area that I focus on, I go out with girls, I have a lot of friends, etc. What's most important in life is being confident, the reason I do well despite being ugly? I'm a cocky bastard.

I don't know what to say to help you improve your confidence, I'm sure there's a shit-ton of articles on the web, though. Basically, talk to people, but don't be weird about it. It's hard at first... and you will fall flat on your face the first couple of times, but the more you do it, the better you get. Once you find people that you can "connect" with, you form friends, you start going out more, and you start meeting girls.

Basically, get the roots sorted - confidence, and the rest comes naturally.


confidence is'nt reality. I'm sorry,but I don't believe if I suddenly become super cofident,all these magical things will happen. lol


Fine, don't believe it. Remain in your depressive rut, let's see how that works out...

It's not about being in a depressive state. It's about reality. A pretty boy can get away with being cocky/overly self-cofident. If a pretty boy has that attitude it's cute. If an ugly has that same attitude he's being an a hole. I would'nt say I'm depressed,bitter maybe,but not depressed. I see things for how they are,not how I wish they would be. I'm what you would call a cynic/realist. Do I overthink this topic of looks,maybe,but so does society for the most part. lol



SamuelRSmith on 10 October 2010

It jut sounds to me like you're sitting there making excuses so that you don't have to do anything to change.



oldschoolfool on 10 October 2010
SamuelRSmith said:

It jut sounds to me like you're sitting there making excuses so that you don't have to do anything to change.



You can't change who you are. I argued my points,but It's okay that you disagree with my opinions. Let's just leave it at that.



Pristine20 on 10 October 2010

lol @ TC

 

Have you seen flava flav? Why does that dude have 15 kids? Fame ? sure...but there are guys who look like him with no jobs or anything going on for themselves that are just as successful with women (though I dont think any one should aspire to 15 kids with 10 mothers) If you aren't confident about your facial features, find something else you can have confidence in. Just working out regularly can build a lot of confidence trust me. Hell, wear make up if you have to.



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"WAR is a racket. It always has been.

It is possibly the oldest, easily the most profitable, surely the most vicious. It is the only one international in scope. It is the only one in which the profits are reckoned in dollars and the losses in lives"---Maj. Gen. Smedley Butler

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Pristine20 on 10 October 2010

BTW Sam, I hate to judge a guy's looks but I dont think you're ugly. Average looking may be a better term but definitely not ugly. I'd like to see TC's picture now because I'm not too sure he's ugly...may just be deluded to beliving so...kinda like anorexics who believe they are fat.



"Dr. Tenma, according to you, lives are equal. That's why I live today. But you must have realised it by now...the only thing people are equal in is death"---Johann Liebert (MONSTER)

"WAR is a racket. It always has been.

It is possibly the oldest, easily the most profitable, surely the most vicious. It is the only one international in scope. It is the only one in which the profits are reckoned in dollars and the losses in lives"---Maj. Gen. Smedley Butler

darthdevidem01 on 10 October 2010
--OkeyDokey-- said:

There are few people that are truly ugly. If you just look after yourself and take some pride in your appearance you'll look good! Unless you're ginger :P

Britney Spears is a perfect example of how good someone can look when they try

And how ugly they can be when they don't give a shit

HOLY MOTHER OF KOJIMA!



All hail the KING, Andrespetmonkey

oldschoolfool on 10 October 2010
Pristine20 said:

lol @ TC

 

Have you seen flava flav? Why does that dude have 15 kids? Fame ? sure...but there are guys who look like him with no jobs or anything going on for themselves that are just as successful with women (though I dont think any one should aspire to 15 kids with 10 mothers) If you aren't confident about your facial features, find something else you can have confidence in. Just working out regularly can build a lot of confidence trust me. Hell, wear make up if you have to.


That's just not true. end of disscusion. lol



oldschoolfool on 10 October 2010
darthdevidem01 said:
--OkeyDokey-- said:

There are few people that are truly ugly. If you just look after yourself and take some pride in your appearance you'll look good! Unless you're ginger :P

Britney Spears is a perfect example of how good someone can look when they try

And how ugly they can be when they don't give a shit

HOLY MOTHER OF KOJIMA!

Stop posting in my thread darthdevidem01,no pretty dogs allowed. lol



SamuelRSmith on 10 October 2010
Pristine20 said:

BTW Sam, I hate to judge a guy's looks but I dont think you're ugly. Average looking may be a better term but definitely not ugly. I'd like to see TC's picture now because I'm not too sure he's ugly...may just be deluded to beliving so...kinda like anorexics who believe they are fat.


Are you trying to seduce me?