Ehhh... I think you're putting too much emphasis on looks, I know they do play a part in society, but not as much as you think.

I mean, I'm an ugly cunt (Facebook for proof - http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1646310319 ) - but I'm still quite successful, I can achieve in just about any area that I focus on, I go out with girls, I have a lot of friends, etc. What's most important in life is being confident, the reason I do well despite being ugly? I'm a cocky bastard.

I don't know what to say to help you improve your confidence, I'm sure there's a shit-ton of articles on the web, though. Basically, talk to people, but don't be weird about it. It's hard at first... and you will fall flat on your face the first couple of times, but the more you do it, the better you get. Once you find people that you can "connect" with, you form friends, you start going out more, and you start meeting girls.

Basically, get the roots sorted - confidence, and the rest comes naturally.

Ehhh... I think you're putting too much emphasis on looks, I know they do play a part in society, but not as much as you think.

I mean, I'm an ugly cunt (Facebook for proof - http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1646310319 ) - but I'm still quite successful, I can achieve in just about any area that I focus on, I go out with girls, I have a lot of friends, etc. What's most important in life is being confident, the reason I do well despite being ugly? I'm a cocky bastard.

I don't know what to say to help you improve your confidence, I'm sure there's a shit-ton of articles on the web, though. Basically, talk to people, but don't be weird about it. It's hard at first... and you will fall flat on your face the first couple of times, but the more you do it, the better you get. Once you find people that you can "connect" with, you form friends, you start going out more, and you start meeting girls.

Basically, get the roots sorted - confidence, and the rest comes naturally.

This is a very interesting topic, and I would like to add a few points. I can not produce links, but I have read studies that show beauty is NOT in the eye of the beholder. Scientist did a study of what different people in different cultures found attractive about the human face. There was a very high agreement about what makes a face beautiful, and quite a bit had to do with symmetry (I do not remember the other factors). To prove that beautiful people have an measureable advantage in the work place, they sent almost identical resumes to employers looking to fill a position in an office. They attached a "head" shot photo to each resume, and even switched the photos between the two resumes for different employers. In most cases, the more "beautiful" person (male or female) was called in for an interview, and the "ugly" was not. Now if they had actually interviewed both people, who was hired may have been a different result. An "ugly" can really shine with personality and confidence. It is the prejudging that puts ugly people at an unfair disadvantage.

u are one of a kind, but i haft to agree.

not only the coments the OP made, but they seem to be very controling and violent. a friend of mines hot girlfirend purposely broke his HD flat screen tv buy pushing it off the table and onto the floor face first just becuase she couldn't get her way or he wouldn't do wht she said when she saya do it. the girl is a nut job.

i got reject from that site to?

Yeah, I think that's more it.

The more good looking are on average.  The more confident you are going to be on average.

Also you know...  proper nutrition correlates with good looks... and also money.

Born in a Middleclass household, get all your nutrition when your young, and are confident and have money.

Born in a Lowerclass household that struggles... live too much off fast food, get acne scars, fat, whatever, have low confidence partly because of looks parly because your rolemodels didn't achieve so why would you think you could,  don't pay attention to school, etc.

Being good looking is probably a confoudning variable when it comes to these things honestly.

Not really a reason, just something that correlates with the reasons these things happen.

Who the hell knows though.  I'm weird I have no real basis on knowlege on what people even think about my looks.  Never thought about it much really... because what's the difference?

Just read the article I linked,there's a world of difference with one's looks. Do you like science are something,because you always seem to debate things in a scientific outline. I've never seen someone present an argument quite like you. lol