Well I'm starting a new job in a week and the receptionist and I seemed to really hit it off while I was there for the last two weeks trying to get a job there. Her attitude likes and dislikes seemed pretty compatible with mine and she's really funny and thinks I'm funny too. We met outside for lunch once just a random meeting. I would have usually already asked a girl out on an official date but there's one thing that's stopping me.

She's obese...like 250-300 pounds obese. If you just saw her face you'd think she's attractive but the rest of her body is really holding me back. I've gone with chuby girls before but never with someone that big. Usually when I see obese people I think no self-control espcially when I'm at the grocery store and there carts are full of cakes and cookies.

Would anyone go out with an obese person or am I just really shallow?

I wouldn't date an obese woman, but I do consider myself shallow. Sometimes you have to think for yourself and sometimes you have to do things that benefit yourself. If you don't find her attractive in more ways than one and you don't think you'll be happy when dating her because of that then it doesn't necesarily mean your shallow it's just that you don't want to date her for that specific reason. Don't date someone just so you don't feel shallow is basically what I'm trying to get across because then your in the relationship for the wrong reason.

I wouldn't date her but I'd have sex with her in my patrol car at the recreation department  parking lot after 2am if she was the best i could find and it was still 2008.

*hangs head in shame*

no. ofcourse personality matters a lot, but i cant imagine going out with an obese person. also obesity isnt something beautiful its a health problem.

note: your a gamer, gamers are perverted, you want a nice big ass, and big tits, so as a gamer as you cant date her.

could you have asked leo J?

^^^Win

It's like asking if you would love a monster man!

There's no two ways around it, obesity is a big turn off. Too big.

He was banned.........

*hangs head in shame*

Actually, now that I think about it, I lost my virginity to a chubby girl.  She wasn't 300 pounds or anything but she was definitely fat.  We had a good time together and I dated her for about a month despite my sisters mocking me.  Plus, she was freak-ay!  But after she trained me in the arts of making love to a woman, I got the attention of a 29 year old Sandra Bulloch (young Sandra, not old Sandra!)  look-a-like named Lori and I broke up with my chubby girlfriend (If you can call moving and not telling her where I went or giving her my phone number) and never looked back.  So, yeah.  I can see it.

-Edited for clarity-

Oh that was you? Lori sais hi btw.