I wouldn't date an obese woman, but I do consider myself shallow. Sometimes you have to think for yourself and sometimes you have to do things that benefit yourself. If you don't find her attractive in more ways than one and you don't think you'll be happy when dating her because of that then it doesn't necesarily mean your shallow it's just that you don't want to date her for that specific reason. Don't date someone just so you don't feel shallow is basically what I'm trying to get across because then your in the relationship for the wrong reason.







