Fair enough. Would you say then if a homosexual wants to heterosexual, gets married to a woman and starts a family, he has changed his sexual orientation?
How could he change his sexual orientation? A person like that would be just a self hating gay guy who married a woman 'cause it was what society/the media/family/religion was telling him to do and he had screwe up notion that that would make him happy. He can pretend to be straight all he wants, but it's more likely that I'll become the queen of England than he'll become straight.
Sexual orientation is determined by whom you find attractive, and whom you desire have sex with (by desire I mean the uncontrolable need to be intimate with a person sexually). You don't have sex with a woman 'cause you wanna be straight. You have sex with a woman 'cause you find her attractive and 'cause of primitive sexual instincts.
My wife's boss is gay and he told us that if he had to live his life over, he would have chosen to get get married to a woman - someone like my wife. Then again, he looked at me and said 'or find a man like me' haha
Well, sounds more like a joke on his part. If he really is gay, then him marrying a woman wouldn't work. He may be just some guy that had bad experiences with men and somehow thinks that women are better (lol, yeah, at least men can't get pregnant with another guy's baby). Anyways congratulations on being a good catch
I have a challenge for you. Say to yourself tomorrow "from now on I'm gonna be gay". Then go to a gay bar, pick up a guy and see how things go. Please post here on how it all worked out. If you actually turn gay I'll eat my hat. And please note, whatever you do with the guy you have to like it('cause sexual orientation is determined by attraction and desire, it's not just a decision that you make). You can't cheat. No thinking of girls or anything like that. Good luck with that.
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