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Whether homosexuality caused from CAH is normal or abnormal is not the point.

Reading some of the posts here, the issue is gays more or less wanting complete validation for their homosexual lifestyle just the same as a church going, married hetero couple with 2 girls and a boy get validation for their lifestyle.

Scientists could discover tomorrow whether homosexuality is genetic or whether homosexuality is a choice fostered by one's environment. Regardless, homosexuals being a minority will not get the validation they want the day after.

Is it right? No, but too often in the news I see homosexual advocacy groups trying to change individual views on homosexuality by shoving their world view down people's throat and calling them homophobic because they are not entirely at ease with the homosexual lifestyle or disagree.

If you want to persuade someone, first find common ground then work from there. For example, advocate for adoption of kids by gay parents and over time as more kids are raised by gay parents, this will take the steam from anti-gay forces that homosexuality is immoral and their main argument of "this is for the children."



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Slimebeast said:
sapphi_snake said:
Slimebeast said:
highwaystar101 said:
Slimebeast said:
highwaystar101 said:

Haven't you figured it out yet Slimebeast? Why I seem to be concerned with this thread? I knew a woman with CAH whilst I was working part-time during my first year at University. The one thing that I can say about her and her condition is that she suffered a lot.

I just can't be bothered to argue with you in this thread any more. Sorry.

It's okay, you don't have to reply or anything.

Your friend suffering from CAH doesn't prove anything, it's bad argumentation. CAH is not a fun condition, but the homosexuality part of it isn't any different than homosexuality in other people.

And there is no such thing as normal homosexuality and unnormal homosexuality.

*Sigh* You do realise that you applied a false terminology that I never used for my point? I never used the term "normal" in the way accuse me of. The only time I even used the word was to relate the chances of being homosexual to that of the general population. Talk about bad argumentation.

The specific quote you picked out said "regular conditions", which is far closer to the "typical/Atypical" terminology that MrBubbles used than the "normal/unnormal" terminology you pinned to my point.

Here you are clearly dividing homosexuality into normal and abnormal types:

"Basically the homosexuality in CAH isn't really natural, it's a symptom of the condition, and therefore different from regular homosexuality. It's not the same."

And you still haven't explained why these guys would suffer from their homosexuality while the other guys would not:

"To put it simply: Homosexuals who are so under regular conditions do not suffer from it. Whereas people with CAH do suffer from their homosexuality."



Isn't he saying that women who have CAH and are lesbians because of that are suffering from the engative effects of CAH? I mean, I doubt lesbiansim is the worst effect of CAH.

He is saying that too, obviously. But that wasn't the only thing he's saying, and I'm addressing the homsexuality part as you can see.

I agree. Though maybe he was just phrasing it wrong. Hope he'll calirify things.



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If I had a choice I would prevent my child from being gay in the womb. Yes not on topic but thats probably a sentiment shared by many.



Tease.

Slimebeast said:
highwaystar101 said:

*Sigh* You do realise that you applied a false terminology that I never used for my point? I never used the term "normal" in the way accuse me of. The only time I even used the word was to relate the chances of being homosexual to that of the general population. Talk about bad argumentation.

The specific quote you picked out said "regular conditions", which is far closer to the "typical/Atypical" terminology that MrBubbles used than the "normal/unnormal" terminology you pinned to my point.

Here you are clearly dividing homosexuality into normal and abnormal types:

"Basically the homosexuality in CAH isn't really natural, it's a symptom of the condition, and therefore different from regular homosexuality. It's not the same."

And you still haven't explained why these guys would suffer from their homosexuality while the other guys would not:

"To put it simply: Homosexuals who are so under regular conditions do not suffer from it. Whereas people with CAH do suffer from their homosexuality."



What I meant by the first statement is that the homosexuality in CAH doesn't come about in the same way the majority of homosexual cases, it's directly linked to the condition. The mechanisms may be the same (or at least believed to be) in that it is caused by hormones, but it is different in the root cause. It can fully be described as an atypical form of homosexuality, in that it is not homosexuality under the same conditions as the majority of cases of homosexuality.

As for my second statement. I object to you saying I haven't explained why they suffer, as I explained about the woman I used to know who suffered from it. You just didn't find that satisfying, so I'll explain a little further using other resources.

Women who suffer from CAH do so because they have been exposed to high levels of the androgen prenatally, and this has caused them to become more "masculinised". They share many of the same characteristics as men even though they often recognise their gender role as female, so their homosexuality comes as part of a "gender confusion", as opposed to just attraction to the same sex. Mentally it can be quite  difficult to cope with, as even from a young age their brains are hard wired to be more masculine, even though they are female.The psychological well being of people with CAH is a concern and often they are required to receive psychological help from an early age to develop with good mental health.

"Relatively positive 'personality functioning' has been reported, based on case work with female adolescents who have received early and adequate medical and psychological care. Another study, however, reported reduced social competence and poorer body image but also a lesser tendency towards 'depressive coping' compared with a control group. The paucity of information on multiple aspects of psychological well-being and quality of life for adults with CAH should concern all health professionals."

(Source)

(On a side note, I don't think the woman I used to know had any psychological help, and she clearly used to struggle to cope with depression)

(But to be honest I shouldn't really have to explain further than their homosexuality is part of their condition and it's one more thing they struggle with. [I know it's not the worst thing they have to cope with by far, but they still have to cope with it]. I guess it's like saying tall people who are tall under regular conditions don't particularly suffer from being tall; however people who are tall because of  growth hormone issues do struggle with it as part of their condition: but this isn't really relevant to my point)



sapphi_snake said:
Coca-Cola said:
sapphi_snake said:
Coca-Cola said:
sapphi_snake said:
Coca-Cola said:

This.

It's not about curing lesbianism and does not prove anything about people born gay - I still believe we are created in the image of our environment

having said that, this is very interesting.  What if we can altar sexual orientation?  Now that would be a topic to discuss.  I'm afraid that most anti-abortion people will be for it and Right to choose people will be against it.  Ironic isn't it?   Seriously, if people believe we can abort little babies, why shouldn't we be able to altar sexual orientation before they are born - hypocrites.  And for Anti-abortionists, if it's immoral to mess with fetus then why would you favor altaring sexual orientation?  You hyporcrites.

Then how do you explain people raised in the same environment turning out differently?

by changing the environment and making new memories.  It's a matter of choice.  I grew up in somewhat broken family. I wanted my parents to divorce cause they fought all the time - I should be very bitter about it but I chose to change and changed my environment.  People come out of closet later in their life and some gays choose to get married and have heterosexual life, etc.

Yes, but that doesn't change their sexual orientation. Do you think the guy that comws out as gay at 40 after 10 years of marriage to a woman was really ever straight? Or that the gay guy who decides to marry a woman 'cause it's the "acceptable" thing to do is really all of the sudden straight? Better yet what do you think sexual orietnation is? The answer to that may explain your view.

I'm not 100% certain on this.  There was a time I was sure that most homosexuals were born with thier sexual orientation.  then a study in the early 90's by U.C.L.A. sociologist concluded that he was able to predict with 80% accuracy, who will have homosexual tendencies by studying their childhood environment.  And I got into this Lipton guy - biologist, who also believes how our first 7 years of life's environment plays major role on who we become.

So as of this moment I believe mostly that our environment plays a major role.  This means that when we as a society accepts gay lifestyle, there will be higher percentage of homosexuals. 

First, link to the article please! Personally I've never trusted pseudo-scientists like sociologists, but I'd like to read it.

Second, the more we accept the gay lifestyle, the more people who are gay will come out. I doubt that most gay people come from gay friendly families who encourage their kids to be gay. The reason why it may seem that there are more gay people today than in the past is largely due to the fact that, due to the wider acceptance of homosexuality, gay people who would've repressed themselves in the past do not do that now.  Plus, what is this environment that makes peopel become gay? 'Cause I know that gay people came from all kinds of environments, and many have siblings raised in the same environment who are straight.

Please provide a link to the article in question.


I would love to get his studies and have been looking for it, but it's from over 17 years ago.  I know he was from U.C.L.A. and I read his articles after seeing him on T.V. talkshow.  this was before Oprah got big - it was and old white guy. I forget the name of the show.    

But you probably heard of Lipton, the biologist.  I think you can hear his teachings on Youtube. 

It could be that more people are coming out of the closet because it is more acceptable, (I won't deny you that), but it's also possible that since it's more acceptable more people are choosing the lifestyle.    Again, I cannot be sure about this but it is possible. 

 



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Coca-Cola said:


I would love to get his studies and have been looking for it, but it's from over 17 years ago.  I know he was from U.C.L.A. and I read his articles after seeing him on T.V. talkshow.  this was before Oprah got big - it was and old white guy. I forget the name of the show.    

But you probably heard of Lipton, the biologist.  I think you can hear his teachings on Youtube. 

It could be that more people are coming out of the closet because it is more acceptable, (I won't deny you that), but it's also possible that since it's more acceptable more people are choosing the lifestyle.    Again, I cannot be sure about this but it is possible. 

 

Lifestyle? What??? Since when is a sexual orientation a lifestyle? "more people are choosing the lifestyle" = gay people are choosing not to pretend they're straight. A gay person pretending to be straight is still gay. And I doubt straight people are starting going gay. Then again if you define sexual orientation just by acts rather than internal feelings and attraction I can see why you have the opinion that you do.



"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"

"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

                                                                               (The Voice of a Generation and Seece)

"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

                                                                               (pizzahut451)

sapphi_snake said:
Coca-Cola said:


I would love to get his studies and have been looking for it, but it's from over 17 years ago.  I know he was from U.C.L.A. and I read his articles after seeing him on T.V. talkshow.  this was before Oprah got big - it was and old white guy. I forget the name of the show.    

But you probably heard of Lipton, the biologist.  I think you can hear his teachings on Youtube. 

It could be that more people are coming out of the closet because it is more acceptable, (I won't deny you that), but it's also possible that since it's more acceptable more people are choosing the lifestyle.    Again, I cannot be sure about this but it is possible. 

 

Lifestyle? What??? Since when is a sexual orientation a lifestyle? "more people are choosing the lifestyle" = gay people are choosing not to pretend they're straight. A gay person pretending to be straight is still gay. And I doubt straight people are starting going gay. Then again if you define sexual orientation just by acts rather than internal feelings and attraction I can see why you have the opinion that you do.

Yeah, i do have options.  I do believe there are people with internal feelings, but I also believe some are sucked into it.

(no pun intended)



Coca-Cola said:
sapphi_snake said:
Coca-Cola said:


I would love to get his studies and have been looking for it, but it's from over 17 years ago.  I know he was from U.C.L.A. and I read his articles after seeing him on T.V. talkshow.  this was before Oprah got big - it was and old white guy. I forget the name of the show.    

But you probably heard of Lipton, the biologist.  I think you can hear his teachings on Youtube. 

It could be that more people are coming out of the closet because it is more acceptable, (I won't deny you that), but it's also possible that since it's more acceptable more people are choosing the lifestyle.    Again, I cannot be sure about this but it is possible. 

 

Lifestyle? What??? Since when is a sexual orientation a lifestyle? "more people are choosing the lifestyle" = gay people are choosing not to pretend they're straight. A gay person pretending to be straight is still gay. And I doubt straight people are starting going gay. Then again if you define sexual orientation just by acts rather than internal feelings and attraction I can see why you have the opinion that you do.

Yeah, i do have options.  I do believe there are people with internal feelings, but I also believe some are sucked into it.

(no pun intended)

Sucked into it??? Please elaborate. You can message me if you don't wanna post it here (may be too off topic).



"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"

"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

                                                                               (The Voice of a Generation and Seece)

"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

                                                                               (pizzahut451)

highwaystar101 said:
Slimebeast said:
highwaystar101 said:

*Sigh* You do realise that you applied a false terminology that I never used for my point? I never used the term "normal" in the way accuse me of. The only time I even used the word was to relate the chances of being homosexual to that of the general population. Talk about bad argumentation.

The specific quote you picked out said "regular conditions", which is far closer to the "typical/Atypical" terminology that MrBubbles used than the "normal/unnormal" terminology you pinned to my point.

Here you are clearly dividing homosexuality into normal and abnormal types:

"Basically the homosexuality in CAH isn't really natural, it's a symptom of the condition, and therefore different from regular homosexuality. It's not the same."

And you still haven't explained why these guys would suffer from their homosexuality while the other guys would not:

"To put it simply: Homosexuals who are so under regular conditions do not suffer from it. Whereas people with CAH do suffer from their homosexuality."



What I meant by the first statement is that the homosexuality in CAH doesn't come about in the same way the majority of homosexual cases, it's directly linked to the condition. The mechanisms may be the same (or at least believed to be) in that it is caused by hormones, but it is different in the root cause. It can fully be described as an atypical form of homosexuality, in that it is not homosexuality under the same conditions as the majority of cases of homosexuality.

As for my second statement. I object to you saying I haven't explained why they suffer, as I explained about the woman I used to know who suffered from it. You just didn't find that satisfying, so I'll explain a little further using other resources.

Women who suffer from CAH do so because they have been exposed to high levels of the androgen prenatally, and this has caused them to become more "masculinised". They share many of the same characteristics as men even though they often recognise their gender role as female, so their homosexuality comes as part of a "gender confusion", as opposed to just attraction to the same sex. Mentally it can be quite  difficult to cope with, as even from a young age their brains are hard wired to be more masculine, even though they are female.The psychological well being of people with CAH is a concern and often they are required to receive psychological help from an early age to develop with good mental health.

"Relatively positive 'personality functioning' has been reported, based on case work with female adolescents who have received early and adequate medical and psychological care. Another study, however, reported reduced social competence and poorer body image but also a lesser tendency towards 'depressive coping' compared with a control group. The paucity of information on multiple aspects of psychological well-being and quality of life for adults with CAH should concern all health professionals."

(Source)

(On a side note, I don't think the woman I used to know had any psychological help, and she clearly used to struggle to cope with depression)

(But to be honest I shouldn't really have to explain further than their homosexuality is part of their condition and it's one more thing they struggle with. [I know it's not the worst thing they have to cope with by far, but they still have to cope with it]. I guess it's like saying tall people who are tall under regular conditions don't particularly suffer from being tall; however people who are tall because of  growth hormone issues do struggle with it as part of their condition: but this isn't really relevant to my point)

This is a great post. In particular how you describe gender confusion in CAH being tied to homosexuality.

I was originally after your wrong(-ish) way of separating reasons for homosexuality into some being pathological and some being not. But it's all been clarified by you now, above.

No hard feelings Highwaystar, I hope.