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School sports day ban for father with no criminal records check 

A school  turned a father away from his son's first sports day after banning parents who have not been checked by police from mixing with pupils.

The taxi driver had gone to watch his son, a seven year old pupil, compete in sprints and egg-and-spoon races.

But teachers refused to let him spectate because they did not believe he had undergone checks by the Criminal Records Bureau.

Rather than argue, the 'mortified' father left quietly so he would not embarrass his son as he took part in the games at the 1,200-pupil De Lisle Catholic Science school in Loughborough, Leicestershire.

The school's policy says that any parent who has not passed the checks is banned from attending events in which pupils take part. The rules are aimed at shielding children from paedophiles.

But critics say they have gone far beyond their original remit. For example, parents picking up groups of children from school or hosting foreign exchange pupils have to undergo checks or face fines.

Yesterday the father said that he regularly underwent Criminal Records Bureau checks for his job as a taxi driver.

The father, who did not want to be named to protect his son's identity, told a Talksport radio programme: 'I couldn't believe it when they told me I wasn't allowed in because I didn't have the relevant CRB checks.

'I'd called the school that morning to ask if it would be OK if I came along and they said it would be no problem. But when I got to the school the assistant head teacher said that as I hadn't had a CRB check then I couldn't watch.

'Rather than kick up a fuss and embarrass my son I just turned around and walked away. I was fuming. She made me feel like it was wrong to want to watch my son take part in his first sports day.

'I'm a taxi driver and I have to have regular CRB checks as part of my licence. I've never had any trouble.

'What is the world coming to when parents can't watch their own kids take part in what is a big day in their young lives? I'm all for protecting kids, but surely there has to be a place for common sense.'

The school said in a statement: 'We fully appreciate that one parent was upset by our policy regarding the attendance of parents at sports days.

'As standard procedure, all our policies are subject to regular review and are changed to meet the needs of our students.

'We regret that on this occasion one parent was upset and we look to review our policy appropriately.'

A spokesman for Leicestershire County Council told Talksport: 'Parents should have access to school activities.

'We certainly do not issue any guidance to say parents should have a CRB check to attend school sports days.

'The day-to-day running of the school is a matter for the school and its governors, but we are contacting the school to discuss their policy with them.'

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Again, a stupid idiotic rule that harms the masses because of the majority. This man had no intentions of causing harm to other people, he just wanted to watch his child. What ever happened to innocent until proven guilty?

......Your thoughts?


 



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So he didn't get a ba ckground check and then he complains when they do what they said they would? yeah, them saying he could come on the phone was stupid, but I don't see anything wrong with this



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dsister said:

So he didn't get a ba ckground check and then he complains when they do what they said they would? yeah, them saying he could come on the phone was stupid, but I don't see anything wrong with this


"'I'm a taxi driver and I have to have regular CRB checks as part of my licence. I've never had any trouble." - the father in question.

He did do what they asked, checked with the school which gave him the go ahead, and still was turned away despite completely complying with the schools wishes. I can see a few problems.



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What the hell is a paedophile?

 

And where the hell is Leicestershire?



Gnizmo said:
dsister said:

So he didn't get a ba ckground check and then he complains when they do what they said they would? yeah, them saying he could come on the phone was stupid, but I don't see anything wrong with this


"'I'm a taxi driver and I have to have regular CRB checks as part of my licence. I've never had any trouble." - the father in question.

He did do what they asked, checked with the school which gave him the go ahead, and still was turned away despite completely complying with the schools wishes. I can see a few problems.

So he has had background checks through his job... would the school have access to this information? If so then yes the school should have let him watch, but if the school didn't have the results then I stand by what I said



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I haven't been in elementary school for a looooong time, but I don't agree with that, I could maybe see them turning away someone who wasn't a close relative..

I can totally agree witht he fact that BG checks for parents who pick up other children for field trips, etc but this was a public event, and he was the child's father..

Granted, you also hear a lot of storys of estranged parents kidnapping their own children, so who knows..

If it was dsister's dad though they should have let him in, noone in their right mind would want to kidnap that kid :P



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wfz said:

What the hell is a paedophile?

And where the hell is Leicestershire?


The correct spelling.

And  Loughborough is about 15 miles south of Nottingham, in Leichestershire in central England, in the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland, in Europe.

And why wasn't I surprised this was a story based in the UK? Welcome to modern Britain indeed.



Hmm, pie.

I'm not surprised.


Do you know what, I feel awkward picking my neice and nephew up from Primary school, and most of the fathers there look worried as well about what people will think, it's ridiculous, but the way the media has sensationalised how there's a peado "on every street corner" apparently, has mothers and schools paranoid.




 

everyone's a paedophile until proven otherwise



Oh, silly UK and your creepy police state shenanigans. Lets see your papers, citizen.

I don't think I could live in a society that paranoid without going nuts.



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