I have a Wii and any time I take it to a friend's house or have a Wii party everybody's in love with it, no matter their age or gender. My friend's have XBoxes and any girls around are like "Wow, a bunch of games with macho bald guys fighting aliens, how fucking boring." I think the HD systems are the ones getting the short end of the stick in the real world. They just happen to have louder people on the internet.
The only shit I've heard in real life about the Wii was at work. Every single guy at my job has a PS3, and all they play is Modern Warfare and Need for Speed. One of the other guys even says "Oh hey are you playing the shooting game or the racing game?" They asked if I had a PS3, and I said I had a Wii, and they actually gave me a dirty look, and asked me why I had a Wii. Having a Wii is apparently crazy, and it needs an explanation. They told me they heard the Wii only had cartoon games for girls and kids. One guy has a PS3 and a Wii, and he only plays PS3. I think he has 2 Wii games, and they're for his 2-year old and 3-year old kids, like Active Life: Outdoor Challenge, and I'm not sure what else. He thinks that's ALL the Wii has. But then again, ALL he plays on his PS3 is Modern Warfare and Need for Speed. He didn't even know there was a 2nd Modern Warfare game until I told him. This is a guy who buys 1 PS3 game a year, and plays it all year, and he thinks the Wii has no games.