What kind of man/woman is your ideal "type"; which traits do you find most attractive, etc?

Someone who is honest, empathetic, loyal, trustworthy, and selfless, and who I am sexually attracted to. Because you can have all the perfect character traits in the world. If there is any problem in the sex department, it will fail. Every time.

My wife.

I don't have one. There are certain unformalized requirements one must meet, but those are the minimum, not an ideal. I don't really care much to have an ideal, because I bet I would question my ideal anyway once I met someone things click with well enough - and is it really an ideal if you're willing to question it so 'easily'? Also, if you really have an ideal, it could be detrimental to getting to know someone, because it might be harder to appreciate that person when they don't meet fully meet your ideal anyway. Also, I have a hunch that even if I had an ideal, anyone meeting that ideal probably wouldn't be an ideal partner after all, because I fear even perfection would get boring after a while.

I guess this is all theoretically speaking though, since I've been in a non-open relationship for a long time now. Also, I wasn't exactly in high demand before my current relationship, so I didn't have an abundance of chances to try out different kinds of people, which makes it this even more speculative.

My girlfriend. Soon wife to be.

Physically, I'm most into women that are fit. They don't have to be skinny, just not overweight. Height doesn't matter, though funnily my only three partners have all been short, but that wasn't a factor in why I was drawn to them. It's probably more that I'm 183cm so like 95% of women are shorter than me.

Boobs have got to be nice, preferably not too big though. Hair/eye colour doesn't really matter. Gotta take good care of their feet. Longer hair is nice, not super long but not like a really short cut or anything that looks like a dude's style.

Personality wise, someone who is a geek like me, with a good sense of humour, easy going, and accepting of the fact I'm autistic.

Someone who doesn't make their politics or their religion their entire personality.

Brain at your level.

Without one that matches your level, it get's boring fast.

Shit, don't tell my girlfriend that, she's way smarter than I am.

I still don't get how she hasn't gotten sick of me yet tbh, she is so far out of my league it ain't funny

At 40 years old i am ready to retire. :P
But just for the discussion: pretty and smart.

I was talking from a male perspective lol, and level probably not the right word but more so wave length.

Women either want a rich guy to buy them everything (ones to avoid)

or

Women want a funny guy that can make her laugh and be supportive emotionally.