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I don't have one. There are certain unformalized requirements one must meet, but those are the minimum, not an ideal. I don't really care much to have an ideal, because I bet I would question my ideal anyway once I met someone things click with well enough - and is it really an ideal if you're willing to question it so 'easily'? Also, if you really have an ideal, it could be detrimental to getting to know someone, because it might be harder to appreciate that person when they don't meet fully meet your ideal anyway. Also, I have a hunch that even if I had an ideal, anyone meeting that ideal probably wouldn't be an ideal partner after all, because I fear even perfection would get boring after a while.

I guess this is all theoretically speaking though, since I've been in a non-open relationship for a long time now. Also, I wasn't exactly in high demand before my current relationship, so I didn't have an abundance of chances to try out different kinds of people, which makes it this even more speculative.