@ Daisy...
your complaints aren't much different than someone playing poker and whining about the hand they were dealt.. you have what you have, you're given what you were given.
now.. while that analogy isn't completely applicable as no one asks for life but those playing poker are willing participants.. once you're in the game, you simply have to accept the rules that were in place before you started.
if you're different, than you're going to have to accept the biases directed towards you for being so.. if you have a losing hand, than you have to accept the reality of that.
the game of poker is not going to change to accommodate a bad row of cards.. and neither is life.
... and just for an added thought, maybe I'm transgendered myself and have learned to accept who I am, realizing that my lifestyle is outside the norm and my continued attempts to thrust my lifestyle into the face of what is natural is a losing battle... and always will be.
Maybe I've learned how to quietly smile at a world that frowns on who I am.
