DJEVOLVE said:
Well I can tell you now that I'm 31. Don't worry most of those cool kids become total losers. I grew up with a over wieght sister and she got picked on a lot. I never really got picked on and I guess i may have been part of the cool club but never shied from new people or different personalities. When i got older I fucked up a few of my sisters Arch enemies and always standed up for people getting picked on. I was raised to stand up for the person less fortunate or teased, also my sister coming home crying made me very sad as a kid and eventually mad, I hated it. So when I got old enough I let it be known shit was not cool anymore. They got the message. By highschool I hung with a group that was well respected and stuck up for others. Not sure how many schools have a crowd like this but I hope we made people feel better. However most of the cool kids fuck each other over and are full of selfish needs. A lot of the so called nerds tend to stick together through life, maybe not all the time but it seems their ties last longer. My neighbor and I are still really great friends and he was picked on too, he was also 3 years older then me, Not only that but when I got into drugs and lashed out from a very disfunctional family, he was always there. Always. he kept me from doing many of the things my other friends got into, like hard drugs. I did do acid, ecstasy, Special K for a little while but went straight around 20. however most of that crowd went to, Crystal meth, Coke, Heroine, you name it. Now the drugs I did where bad enough. I did loss a few of them and a big portion turned around their lifes oddly enough. Some are lost for good or have bad families lifes with lots of problems. Moral of the story is, the cool kids usually get it wrong. It's the ones that get teased and mocked that succeed or at least care for people. Not all the time but in my case it is what happened. So don't worry, your parents are great for wanting to spend time with you and you will look back with pride. Don't worry about the cool kids. Not sure of your age now but keep up the grades, hard work and push forward. It will get better, it always does. It's all perception my friend. |
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it was quite awhile ago like 7 years ago. i was 12, i was never really picked on it just sucks that everyone was invited except me and it was extremely embarrassing. I was kinda the quiet kid, although luckiy never really got bullied
