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I am introvert and have no idea what to say to women in social situations. I do not have an extroverted friend to help me out so I avoid those situations. Introverted guys are not liked by most women. It is being introverted that makes it hard for men to attract women. If you are an extroverted guy that is most guys on here, because an extrovert easily handles social situations. Extroverted, outgoing personality is friendly and approachable. Introverted personality is cold, dark, distant and unapproachable.

Then it is a huge numbers game and if you are not extroverted guy, you just keep asking women out until you get positive/yes replies and you are find social interactions boost your energy levels. Introverted guys are less likely to continue asking women out because social interactions are energy draining for introverted guys and find it hard to engage in conversations. It is your introverted personality that repels women.

When anyone says you have bad aura, they do not like that you are quiet introverted and reject you solely based on being an introvert. It is hard to get to know introverted people, they do not engage with others and spend most time on their own studying, reading, watching, TV or any activity that does not involve mixing with other people.

An introvert allows rejections to upset his day/week or longer. Extroverts do not worry about rejection and are more likely to continue on. Inability to handle rejection/failure and being a perfectionist is a fatal flaw that introverts often take the rejection/failure too personally. Extroverts shrug off rejection/failure and 

How do you change from being introverted to extroverted that would help so many guys out?

Last edited by Dark_Lord_2008 - on 09 June 2019

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Dark_Lord_2008 said:

The top 10% of men who understand women, are confident in themselves, and know what they are doing monopolize all the desirable women. Dating is fun and easy for these men, but is hard and frustrating for the remaining 90%.

The reason for this is because the demand for them is a lot lower than the supply.

Men are usually wired to make the first move, and attractive women naturally get hundreds or thousands of messages from guys a day. The high levels of perceived interest allows women to increase their standards and reject most of the men that reach out. The high amounts of rejection is what causes some men to become bitter or give up on dating.

Women don’t get rejected as often simply because they usually aren’t the initiators, so they don’t experience as much hardship as men.

Another reason why dating is harder for the 90% of men, is because the skillset needed to succeed in dating as a man is much more complex than that needed to succeed as a woman. To increase her prospects in dating, a woman just needs to look better by exercising and eating healthy, and maybe picking up a hobby or two to have something to talk about.

A lot of work goes into increasing a man’s prospects. As the likely initiator, he has to learn how to initiate and lead a conversation properly, build impeccable self esteem, be experienced in social situations, have a vibrant social life, have a vision in life, and have a promising career IN ADDITION to looking better by exercising and eating healthy. These things take time, continuous effort, and multiple failures to achieve.

Getting a decent date for the 90% is hard. If a man can’t get a decent date, he will not get any opportunities to practice and improve, and will be eternally sentenced to a frustrating love life. Women get more opportunities than men, which is why dating is harder for men.

Not having any older male siblings/cousins or male role models makes it harder to learn how to act and what moves to make. Men that are on their own with little or no social networks are hugely disadvantaged in dating game. Pick Up Art game is comical and has been proven a big lie that only makes desperate guys look like idiots and lose money for a program that does not work. Dress up and look funny and insult women and fake confidence to pretend to be Alpha Male is not going to work in the real world.

Lol you are like a Brazilian robot.  I was totally diggin you till you came with alpha male insult women shit.  Anyone that has any knowledge of hooking up knows making women laugh is most important quality.  Who the fuck do you chill with that gets women by downgrading them?  Even if they get women by talking shit to them don't give a fuck.  Who wants to be with an abused dog.  Not me



Dark_Lord_2008 said:

The top 10% of men who understand women, are confident in themselves, and know what they are doing monopolize all the desirable women. Dating is fun and easy for these men, but is hard and frustrating for the remaining 90%.

The reason for this is because the demand for them is a lot lower than the supply.

Men are usually wired to make the first move, and attractive women naturally get hundreds or thousands of messages from guys a day. The high levels of perceived interest allows women to increase their standards and reject most of the men that reach out. The high amounts of rejection is what causes some men to become bitter or give up on dating.

Women don’t get rejected as often simply because they usually aren’t the initiators, so they don’t experience as much hardship as men.

Another reason why dating is harder for the 90% of men, is because the skillset needed to succeed in dating as a man is much more complex than that needed to succeed as a woman. To increase her prospects in dating, a woman just needs to look better by exercising and eating healthy, and maybe picking up a hobby or two to have something to talk about.

A lot of work goes into increasing a man’s prospects. As the likely initiator, he has to learn how to initiate and lead a conversation properly, build impeccable self esteem, be experienced in social situations, have a vibrant social life, have a vision in life, and have a promising career IN ADDITION to looking better by exercising and eating healthy. These things take time, continuous effort, and multiple failures to achieve.

Getting a decent date for the 90% is hard. If a man can’t get a decent date, he will not get any opportunities to practice and improve, and will be eternally sentenced to a frustrating love life. Women get more opportunities than men, which is why dating is harder for men.

Not having any older male siblings/cousins or male role models makes it harder to learn how to act and what moves to make. Men that are on their own with little or no social networks are hugely disadvantaged in dating game. Pick Up Art game is comical and has been proven a big lie that only makes desperate guys look like idiots and lose money for a program that does not work. Dress up and look funny and insult women and fake confidence to pretend to be Alpha Male is not going to work in the real world.

This annoys me.

You make it look like women are these strange animals that in order to get a date with them you have to be dishonest about your personality and it's not that hard to understand women,it's the same as understanding ourselves as people and not genders.

Work on your insecurity and selfimage and that is the best thing you can do to help yourself with dating women.



sethnintendo said:

Lol you are like a Brazilian robot.  I was totally diggin you till you came with alpha male insult women shit.  Anyone that has any knowledge of hooking up knows making women laugh is most important quality.  Who the fuck do you chill with that gets women by downgrading them?  Even if they get women by talking shit to them don't give a fuck.  Who wants to be with an abused dog.  Not me

If you have a spare 48hours, go find the thread he started on dating women. Was interesting.

Edit: http://gamrconnect.vgchartz.com/thread.php?id=238489&page=1



 

 

I think this thread has more than served it's purpose.. which was, what again?

Well if it was to unveil the concerning amount of low-key sexism on VGChartz, then I suppose it was a roaring success. Locked.