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Men choose to remain single and give up on women?

They do not want to becom... 9 7.69%
 
They do not want to change! 12 10.26%
 
They do not need a woman'... 3 2.56%
 
They do not want to conform to society! 5 4.27%
 
They have busy life and d... 9 7.69%
 
They are a man-child and never grew up! 17 14.53%
 
They are regarded as a lo... 15 12.82%
 
Modern feminism double st... 19 16.24%
 
Other! 27 23.08%
 
They choose sex workers instead! 1 0.85%
 
Total:117

I do not want a repeat of high school that is why I avoid social events. Having to fight so many people was so draining even when I won most of the time. Being the tough guy did not lead to gaining popularity, life is no Hollywood movie. My approach of being the silent guy and not talking at social events does not work out like movies and only made me appear like a weird, psycho creep. The best scenario is to avoid the social events and avoid anxiety and stress.



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Dark_Lord_2008 said:
I do not want a repeat of high school that is why I avoid social events. Having to fight so many people was so draining even when I won most of the time. Being the tough guy did not lead to gaining popularity, life is no Hollywood movie. My approach of being the silent guy and not talking at social events does not work out like movies and only made me appear like a weird, psycho creep. The best scenario is to avoid the social events and avoid anxiety and stress.

Who are you fighting though?

If all the confident people who have friends go to pubs/clubs or on Tinder and that event thing says mainly singles come with no friends, they will be just as socially awkward as you. Shouldn't be too hard as they all be like minded.



 

 

If you don't want to try any of the suggestions perhaps the easiest thing for you to do is queue outside Centerlink. Wait for the suitable woman to walk out of there and strike a deal were you knock up a few kids to get the extra baby payments. You get a regular root, she gets money. Win Win. You don't need to spend money and you still get your Centerlink payments.



 

 

Cobretti2 said:
Try Bumble

Bumble is similar to Tinder except once you match, you can only chat if the woman instigates the conversation. So if you’re a male who finds it difficult to approach women, this app is definitely a winner for you!

The fact that the women can filter the conversations seems to weed out the creeps and losers.

Bumble is better than Tinder, but after a year on it and swiping right to tens of thousands of women I've only ever gotten one date out of it. Of the 5 dating apps I'm on I've had the most luck with OKCupid. Plenty of Fish used to be okay but these days it's as dead as the Vita.



curl-6 said:
Cobretti2 said:
Try Bumble

Bumble is similar to Tinder except once you match, you can only chat if the woman instigates the conversation. So if you’re a male who finds it difficult to approach women, this app is definitely a winner for you!

The fact that the women can filter the conversations seems to weed out the creeps and losers.

Bumble is better than Tinder, but after a year on it and swiping right to tens of thousands of women I've only ever gotten one date out of it. Of the 5 dating apps I'm on I've had the most luck with OKCupid. Plenty of Fish used to be okay but these days it's as dead as the Vita.

I only posted it cause he said he wants the woman to make the first move lol. No idea if its good or bad just that the review said they make the move.

Also being Perth, I doubt there be many choices for women there so he have some better luck then Melbourne.



 

 

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I hate the new changes to the dating sites, must use real names and verified by mobile number and or Facebook on some of the newer online dating sites. I believe this invades privacy and takes the fun out of being online. People should be able to remain anonymous on dating sites like the good old days. I like being anonymous online and I like messing around with fake profiles and fake photos on dating sites and social media. I create fake male and female profiles just for laughs and it kills time when I am bored!

Privacy laws and remaining anonymous online and no need to provide mobile phone or Facebook to verify ID on dating sites. People should have the right to remain anonymous online. Only a court should have the right to track down people through ISP address if an offence has taken place. Free dating sites can  misuse people's information and that invades privacy. There is nothing worse than being bombarded by random texts, phone calls of robotic telemarketers and scammers because an online dating site has fraudulently sold your personal data to third party sources. That is why I believe Facebook and mobile numbers should not be needed to verify when signing up with any free website.

Anyone can claim anything on dating sites and social media. Photoshopped in background scenery to make it appear to have travelled extensively or into extreme sports, own pet tigers, claim to own jet skis, sports cars with the pics to support the claims. Just keep making claim after claim and tell more lies to cover up the lies. Claim to be a doctor, engineer, lawyer, musician, sport star, etc. Claim to have written novels and claim to speak multiple languages and have a Masters Degree/Ph D. I do not ever give out mobile number or email address online because scammers or whoever could misuse that information or conduct background checks. If they do not have the personal info they can not misuse it.

Last edited by Dark_Lord_2008 - on 28 January 2019

Being a man of mystery, world traveller, dresses well, eats right, lifts weights, keeping fit, into extreme sports, fine dining and music festivals= interesting!
James Bond, Niko Bellic, Nathan Drake and Marcus Fenix have been a few of my user names.
Paper match is not a real match when the person on a fake profile just disappears when he/she gets bored and moves onto next.
Fantasy beats reality, online it is too good to be true and the real life meeting is often a huge let down.
Truth become lies and lies become truth.



Dark_Lord_2008 said:

I hate the new changes to the dating sites, must use real names and verified by mobile number and or Facebook on some of the newer online dating sites. I believe this invades privacy and takes the fun out of being online. People should be able to remain anonymous on dating sites like the good old days. I like being anonymous online and I like messing around with fake profiles and fake photos on dating sites and social media. I create fake male and female profiles just for laughs and it kills time when I am bored!

Privacy laws and remaining anonymous online and no need to provide mobile phone or Facebook to verify ID on dating sites. People should have the right to remain anonymous online. Only a court should have the right to track down people through ISP address if an offence has taken place. Free dating sites can  misuse people's information and that invades privacy. There is nothing worse than being bombarded by random texts, phone calls of robotic telemarketers and scammers because an online dating site has fraudulently sold your personal data to third party sources. That is why I believe Facebook and mobile numbers should not be needed to verify when signing up with any free website.

Anyone can claim anything on dating sites and social media. Photoshopped in background scenery to make it appear to have travelled extensively or into extreme sports, own pet tigers, claim to own jet skis, sports cars with the pics to support the claims. Just keep making claim after claim and tell more lies to cover up the lies. Claim to be a doctor, engineer, lawyer, musician, sport star, etc. Claim to have written novels and claim to speak multiple languages and have a Masters Degree/Ph D. I do not ever give out mobile number or email address online because scammers or whoever could misuse that information or conduct background checks. If they do not have the personal info they can not misuse it.

Well considering you just admit to trolling on dating sites what they proposing is a good idea. Dating sites need to get rid of trolls and allow people who actually are serious in wanting to ifnd love get there, instead of end up like curl6 swiping all these fake profiles.



 

 

Dark_Lord_2008 said:

The dating scene in the US and Europe is completely different to Australia. At most bars and clubs in Australia guys go out with their male mates and girls go out with their females males. There is no dating culture in Australia. Most dating scenarios are set up by friends and family, if you do not have friends and family, dating is very hard unless you are a rich guy and can buy social connections.

https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/single-its-not-you-its-aussies-20160223-gn11o7.html

I don't buy it. I dated multiple women from Australia in University; one gave me a blowjob in the washroom of a restaurant. Women from Australia are FREAKS. I should note they all came from one city, Melbourne. Perhaps Melbourne is simply more sexy than the rest of the country.



I describe myself as a little dose of toxic masculinity.

Jumpin said:
Dark_Lord_2008 said:

The dating scene in the US and Europe is completely different to Australia. At most bars and clubs in Australia guys go out with their male mates and girls go out with their females males. There is no dating culture in Australia. Most dating scenarios are set up by friends and family, if you do not have friends and family, dating is very hard unless you are a rich guy and can buy social connections.

https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/single-its-not-you-its-aussies-20160223-gn11o7.html

I don't buy it. I dated multiple women from Australia in University; one gave me a blowjob in the washroom of a restaurant. Women from Australia are FREAKS. I should note they all came from one city, Melbourne. Perhaps Melbourne is simply more sexy than the rest of the country.

Lol he doesn't want to leave Perth.

 

TBH im surprised he even leaves his house the way he talks like he doesn't want to do anything to improve his situation.