I stare at women and I never say a word to them.
Wearing dark sunglasses makes it less obvious.
I do not need to ask women out just to be rejected endlessly and no reason given.
How can you improve if you do not know what you are doing wrong?

In regards to employment I do not have a job agency or anyone to apply for jobs for me.
I am incapable of applying for jobs and trying to explain due to my disability and various issues.
I am now on the disabled pension so no longer have to apply for jobs.

Endless failure and rejection only added to my problems and I learned nothing.
I was doomed from the start and destined to be a loser in life!

With women you can't just ask them out you need to do the song and dance to they feel comfortable around you. Can't just approach a random on the street and say lets go out.

As for work there are plenty of agencies that help you find jobs.

Salvation army employment services is generally were centerlink send you there to ensure you get your payments. They should be able to help you. They even show you how to write cover letter, resume and roll play interviews.

I offered help to read your cover letter and resume. I even gave you a template that has worked for me earlier. The key point being ALWAYS SUBMIT your resume.

Cobretti2 is the ultimate bro.

I do not know what jobs I would have been capable of doing and I do not have a car license to get to work because well I failed my car license twice around 15 years ago and just gave up like I do with everything else in life.
Ideally work from home and make money from not having to interact with others is my preferred employment situation.
The disabled pension is a set and forget payment and there is no requirement to look for work.
Before I got onto the disabled pension I was with a Disabled Network Employment Service.
For many years I struggled with Job Network agencies that only made my problems worse and they did not understand.

I don't have a license either. I use public transport.

If working alone is your best option the seriously learn to program website. Plenty of work in the field.

I knew at 16 I had the intuition and insight that all women will never accept me.
My parents had just broken up and I decided I never wanted to experience rejection like that in my lifetime.
I blamed myself for years that my parents had broke up and I dropped out of school because I could not accept it.
Years went by where I did nothing with my life.

So far I have been proven right not to waste time asking women out.
They will always say no and they will never give me a chance.
I know women would always say no and never give me a chance and no point trying and failing.
I do not say hi or smile when random women say hi or smile.
It must be a cruel joke and I just walk on by and ignore them.

Bruh, I know it sucks, and I can't pretend to understand what you're going through, but - I do feel I exhibit some of your traits (pretty sure I have many traits of social anxiety and some of autism), and I really feel from my perspective that you just gotta play the hand you're dealt. That's all you can do. You can't control the mental/physical state you were given, but you can control what you do with it. If you do that to the best of your ability, and maintain a positive outlook and try to be a kind person to others and treat yourself well, good things will happen. Maybe not as well as you'd like but it will.

I watched a Boogie video once that helped give me hope. In it he said something like "maybe you were thrown into a game in extra hard mode, well.. beat the game anyway".

I've had zero luck with women and I haven't had much of a robust job history myself, but I try to remain positive and don't give up. I just keep fighting. I try to look at it as, it hardens my resolve and strengthens my character. At the very least, I try to maintain a calm peace about myself. That's all you can do.

ok hopefully this multi tag works lol.

@Darth

You are not wrong. I was born in a time and in a country that didn't even have conditions for the symptoms he has described or that I have ready about autism. you miss behave or acted funny you got your ass wooped by a cane lol.  You were quiet or antisocial your parents called you a wild beast that need to grow up. You didn't want to do something? then you didn't get to eat.  If i was born in Australia I fear that doctors here would have been to quick to label you autistic and suddenly you get thrown into this other bucket.

Darth a lot of dating and entering into a serious relationship is pure luck, chance and being there at the right time. Only way to get there is to keep trying, so good on you for staying positive. I wish you all the luck.

If you want a root, one night stands is a different beast. Pretty much all emotions taken out and all lust. Fun when you young but it does become empty from what the so called players who have matured have told me lol. Some just never grow up and continue that life style, which is their choice.

@SpokenTruth

Exactly but he doesn't seem to want to get the help. He described himself as uglies mfker etc. but in all honesty at 70kgs of weight, he can easily improve his look simply by just dressing a little better and smiling here and there. Sometimes I wonder if he is trolling us or not because in his latest reply he says he dropped out of school, but then he said he has a degree on commerce. You can' get to uni without graduating year 12. So i don't know how much is real and how much is fiction built around his bubble to shield  him from the world/reality.

Every time people provide some useful info, he just rejects it completely.  I am half tempted to visit these places in WA that help autisict people to see what help they offer.

@BOTH

I don't know if you read any of my replies or not but everytime he said something negative about his live, I gave him examples of my own life were I was worst off and how others are worst off. It is how they dealt with those situations and bounced back that made the difference.

At the end of the day no matter how shit your life is, someone's will always be shittier. At the same time no matter how good your life is, someone's will always be better. You just gotta make the best of what you got.

He does not know but he means well and when a person is scared for social interaction in such a high amount that just talking to a women feels like hell then i find it understandable he just wants to avoid it but yes he thinks about it the wrong way.

He did not choose to be what he is and the stress/panic about small/big uncontrolled things will never go away,people in this thread that think autists can rearange their brain to start thinking "normal" have no understanding of it at all and everyone thinking like if they can overcome stress then autists should too but they dont know how stress works differently for them.

He has a negative view on humanity as a whole and considering situation no one should feel offended about that and his case, a small amount of people with samelike experiences to chat with would be a good beginning but do not even start thinking about the rest and none should push him for that.

Well, tonight's the night. In T Minus 6 hours I'll be heading out to my last singles night of my 20s.

Got a nice crisp but not too serious shirt and some neat jeans ready to go, gonna have some drinks to take the edge off the social anxiety, use deodorant/cologne/etc, shower and shave beforehand, all the standard stuff. Fingers crossed.