I'm sorry but posts like this just sound as whiny and entitled as the "SJWs" you "hyper sensitive to any criticism men" get.

1st off -- society changes ok. It's not 1970 or 1980 or 1880 anymore. The world you go to sleep to dies a little bit and evolves forward the next day. Change happens. Constant whining about change to me is part of the same coin.

Yes you can't say the same things without impunity today, when I was in high school I was a self admitted jock. I played sports and the banter was different then. "Stop playing like a fucking fag" for example was accepted talk. Today it's not with kids that age that I see, and you know what? I say good on them. It was stupid when it was done back then, but no guy really had the balls to step up and say it was wrong, we just all went along with it, and that isn't any better.

Also Ripley is a fictional movie character and the "kick ass" fetishization is primarily to appeal to (well) men ... lets get that clear. If you want to choose an apt example maybe try using a real person. Like Oprah Winfrey or someone. It's like saying Darth Vader is strong in the movies, so men have nothing to complain about.

Absolutelly, as a kid I was bullied as well and what that happened  was not suicide or insanity, it was:

1 - Self-observation to understand if part of the criticism was deserved. Most of it really was.

2 - Effort to overcome part of the weakness.

3 - Accepting the weaknesses that were not fixable (like being a short guy).

4 - Realizing my place in the social arrangement and finding ways to get into the spots I wanted.

5 - Growth, understanindg the social fabric.]

Most of this was unconscious, cause it was simply the process of growing more mature and becoming a adult.

Absolutelly, as a kid I was bullied as well and what that happened  was not suicide or insanity, it was:

1 - Self-observation to understand if part of the criticism was deserved. Most of it really was.

2 - Effort to overcome part of the weakness.

3 - Accepting the weaknesses that were not fixable (like being a short guy).

4 - Realizing my place in the social arrangement and finding ways to get into the spots I wanted.

5 - Growth, understanindg the social fabric.]

Most of this was unconscious, cause it was simply the process of growing more mature and becoming a adult.

So, basically you're saying that people that are getting bullied should just accept it and know their role? Also, you're talking about how suffering is so great for people, well I'm pretty sure the poor people in Africa that are starving to death and constantly having to live in fear of disease and war are really proud of their situation as it makes them so much stronger.

Don't you think you could've done all that without being bullied?  Why don't we try and teach people to realize and overcome their weaknesses without being assholes?

I kinda do, when my health is low. I run to it and wait till it goes up again, then I try to go through a upper point of the map. We´re talking about HAWKEN, right?

Yeah, the OP's justification of bullying as some kind of positive life experience is just bullshit.  Abusive behavior has always ruined lives no matter how far back you go.  Do some people get through it?  Sure, though some of them end up with serious issues.  

My father was bullied by his step-mother.  He ended up mean and tough.  Is that a success story?  I don't think so.  He wasn't very good at being a father and husband, he had trouble keeping friends, and his temper was absolutely frightening.  Fear of my father defined my childhood.  He was completely unable to apologize and complex emotions and responsibility made him go out to his shop and lose himself in work.  One of his brothers became an alcoholic and died from it.  One of his sisters became a hypochondriac with mental problems.  Another brother was a pathological liar who also had a scary temper and a history of violent behavior.

These are people who grew up in the 1950s and 60s.

No, bullying has never been a positive.

I have being guilty of this social crime many times before SvenooJ, blaming my weakness in others and demanding a safe space where I did not need to grow.

The result was: I lost many oportunities of becoming thicker skin and more mature, it was my loss.

My beef with the SJW is that their utopia seems to me like a perpetual kindergarden. Sorrow was the main source of growth in my life, and in most lives.

I don´t know if you have time for this, but what happened at this event (link bellow) in UMASS is a frightening vision of what will happen in the SJW World Kindergarden.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yCcp36n2cDg

In resume, they did not allowed the speakers to work, screammed like dying animals or something.

Even in a christian friendly university people like Christopher Hitchens and Richard Dawkins were allowed to speak, even heresies, against God and were met with nothing but respect. As it should be in the Academia

At the most, the people would not applaud particular points of the speech, but the person was applauded for showing up and talking.

But, to answer your question: I know there is no place for a person like me in the SJW Utopia, I am a candidate for the Christian Concentration Camps of the SJW Utopia, cause I am a toxic guy. If that happens someday, I will find peace in the fact that I was not completely silent.

This is why I am speaking while I still can.

I don't have the time to watch that now unfortunately. But condoning bullying goes too far. Booeing speakers is bad form too.
Bullying is not a form of sorrow. What kids should not be shielded off from is how the world really is. My parents always let me watch the news, although back then it was still objective news. Unfiltered issues from the world, and ofcourse growing up during the cold war and frequent hijakcings of planes and trains, IRA bombings, peopel starving in Ethiopia, war in Yugoslavia.
On the family scale problems weren't hidden either. Mental Illness, cancer, child abuse, war horror stories weren't hidden, plenty sorrow to build character. My mother work with refugees for years, they stayed over at our house a couple of times as well. We also housed WW2 veterans for liberation day celebrations. All that builds character. Not bullying, name calling etc.

Anyway I don't know what SJW utopia means. I don't see it on a local scale where I live. My oldest is only 7 though, and the current challenge is to teach the line between friendly banter and bullying and to stand up for yourself. It's true when they say it takes a village to raise a child. I'm so proud of him that he went to the bus driver himself to ask for a different seat when getting harassed on the bus. And now they've become good friends after all. Bullying can be easily corrected when you catch it early, ignore it and the consequences pile up. Most of it comes from asking for attention, yet not knowing how to, or passing abuse along without realizing it.