| DonFerrari said: And most people born as millenials sure wouldn't survive the past milenium with their weak backbones... I've been bullied most of my school life, but that ended up making me insensitive for most jokes and not bothering with idiotic stuffs, that allows me to have a very compossed atitude at work |
Absolutelly, as a kid I was bullied as well and what that happened was not suicide or insanity, it was:
1 - Self-observation to understand if part of the criticism was deserved. Most of it really was.
2 - Effort to overcome part of the weakness.
3 - Accepting the weaknesses that were not fixable (like being a short guy).
4 - Realizing my place in the social arrangement and finding ways to get into the spots I wanted.
5 - Growth, understanindg the social fabric.]
Most of this was unconscious, cause it was simply the process of growing more mature and becoming a adult.









