WAIT.
The concept of "used games" doesn't actually exist.
If you wanted to sell a jacket you're not wearing or a desk you're not using anymore, would it ever occured to you to have to ask permission or pay anything to the manufacturer or brand ? (The same goes in fact if you just want to lend or give what you own)
OF COURSE NOT. That's because in every constitution since the beginning of civilization there is a very important notion that is the right of property. As of now what it still says in US or Europe constitutions is that what you buy, you own. And what you own, you can do whatever you want with.
We've been manipulated by medias for so long into accepting some consecutive corruption of the law like the one saying you can't modify your iphone or computer or whatever, BUT it still doesn't change the core of the law and that's why nobody's been ever sued for jailbreaking an iphone or modifying a console (unless you are hacking into private databases, or stealing IP).
SO NO, you should never be prevented from using, lending, giving or selling what you OWN. That's why big publishers shouldn't been seen as anything but the usual corrupt greedy fat corporation who, like the music majors, are trying to corrupt the law even it means attacking people's rights or liberties by doing so, and the only way they'll be able to is if we give them approval vocally or with the wallet (which makes you collaborator).
And finally, the only thing a publisher/manufacturer should be able to do, would be to charge you a small service fee to transfert/sell a game online, like kickstarter or amazon would. In fact I think that they've been trying to attack used games to try to get back the margin cut that Gamestop gets when it buys back and sells games, which is false logic because the cost of operations, hiring and the fact that it is physically based makes it totally normal to get that margin.