lolita said:
Kasz216 said:
Unless you died before you were old enough to decide for yourself. Not that it seems to matter in your particular case... but in most cases when you argue "my parents shouldn't of baptized me".
What you are asking them is largely.... "Why did you make a choice that would make sure if I died we'd spend forever together rather then wait 15 years or so until I could make up my own mind."
In your case, it was just a cerimony... that literally effected you in no real way. It'd be like being upset you were thrown a birthday party at 1 when you were too early to decide if you liked birthday parties.
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"If I would have died, nothing would have happened. There is no God and certainly no heaven."
That's why I hate debates, they get nowhere. Me and you are different. I don't believe in those things and that's my point. My whole life, even as a kid, I never did. I never studied religion at school (it was an option), it never appealed to me. Heck even my mom isn't religious. We never went to church. Anyway, you get my point, religion was NEVER a part of my life except for that baptism. God to me is like Santa Claus, fictional being. I never even believed in Santa Claus as a child.
It just makes no sense to me that my mom did it. I never will understand it and it was completely pointless. No it didn't hurt me in any way but it still doesn't change the fact that it's silly to do it.
Oh and your comparison with a b-day party is quite flawed. A B-day has a purpose and is beneficial to me. While the baptism isn't, it was a forced religious ceremony.
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It's not an actual debate. That's actually the way parents look at it.
Said parents would be worried and have way more sterss on their shoulders for 15 years. That's not a debate. That's reality. Even if your right, the stress religious parents feel would still be there.
You are saying "I didn't want a pointless thing which has harm done to give people much less stress for 15 years."
Do you get mad if religious people put you in their nightly prayers.
My parents could of ordained me as a muslim, hacidic jew or satanist as a kid... and I wouldn't of cared. If it took stress off them, or hell even if they just enjoyed the free ordourves that came with it, i'd be happy because they got something out of it they liked and there was no harm to me.
They're my parents, and there really isn't enough that could be done to pay them back. To complain about a harmless cerimony that did nothing and that you hold no significance or point to is just... ungrateful. Hell you probably don't even remember it happening.
I don't mean to sound harsh, but your arguement is basically, "I'm mad that this thing I think is pointless and didn't hurt me in anyway was done to me and gave my mother joy."
And furthermore that it shouldn't be done to other kids, despite no negatives being done to them... and the positives being a benefit to their parents.