there is one thing.... If you are self conscious about something... even if she might so happen to stumble upon it by accident. And you know it will piss you off if she goes there. You shouldn't insult the person.
there is one thing.... If you are self conscious about something... even if she might so happen to stumble upon it by accident. And you know it will piss you off if she goes there. You shouldn't insult the person.
IDK man, I am pretty god at brushing it off.
I just like to put peeps in their place sometimes
Some quick tips for high school survival..
-don't take insults to heart, but don't ignore them compleatly either. honestly look at yourself and see if they are valid, and if they are, if you care if they are valid or not. high school lasts 4 years in most places then it really stops mattering in a fuck of a hurry, you gotta be you and you gotta happy with that person. If you are happy with you, let everyoe that doesn't like it piss up a rope, you won't know them forever.
-if you want the shit to stop, DO NOT IGNORE IT. you act like a victim you get treated like a victim, i'm not saying firebomb cars here, but at some point digging in your heals and saying enough is required.
-that being said, pick your battles and make sure you fight the ones you have a chance of winning, not the ones your going to get your ass handed to you in(either phiscaly of verbaly) walking away isn't always wrong, it's only worng if you always do it.
-in verbal battles less is always more. i find a good deadpan look and something along the lines of " and i give a fuck about what you think why?" is a good all purpose answer. you start running your mouth there's a good chance a lot of shit is coming back at you.
-if you know any personly flaws in your attacker, by all means go for the jugular, but cut clean and sharp. her boy friend dumped her? if you spent more time with his dick in your mouth then with shit coming out of it you'd still have a bf. Parents got/ getting a divorce? smile and say it's cause she tore them apart. again stay deadpan and act like it means nothing at all to you personaly, Just the facts ma'am.
-make promises not theats, if you say something make damn sure you can back it up
-if you start it, finish it, thats all there is to it.
As you can proably tell confidince is 95 % of this stratigy. you are going to lose some of the time but as long as you dig in and don't make it easy for people they will stop, usaly sooner rather then later. bullys like easy marks that they can beat around, if your not an easy mark they will most times find softer pery. on rare ocasions they will seek challange in you, and thats your play, i don't know you so i can't give you specific advice there.
Remeber Highschool ends, make the best of it and fuck em if they can't take a joke.
| trashleg said: aah, the good ol' days of high school - you know, i think i actually agree with dtewi on this one. wow. |
Awww... I feel special.
Why do you feel the need to say "wow"? Have my posts or opinions been subpar?
Kimi wa ne tashika ni ano toki watashi no soba ni ita
Itsudatte itsudatte itsudatte
Sugu yoko de waratteita
Nakushitemo torimodosu kimi wo
I will never leave you
dtewi said:
Awww... I feel special. Why do you feel the need to say "wow"? Have my posts or opinions been subpar? |
haha naw, its just a first. i agree with that guy up there too ^ he knows his stuff.
trashleg said:
haha naw, its just a first. i agree with that guy up there too ^ he knows his stuff. |
You've known me for nearly two months on this site and this is the first time you agree with me?
Kimi wa ne tashika ni ano toki watashi no soba ni ita
Itsudatte itsudatte itsudatte
Sugu yoko de waratteita
Nakushitemo torimodosu kimi wo
I will never leave you
*Edited* Misunderstood OP
I am the black sheep
"of course I'm crazy, but that doesn't mean I'm wrong."-Robert Anton Wilson
| hatmoza said: *Edited* Misunderstood OP |
A little too late to get the quote.
You bullied people when you were younger? It's disgusting to be a bully. What's your problem?
Kimi wa ne tashika ni ano toki watashi no soba ni ita
Itsudatte itsudatte itsudatte
Sugu yoko de waratteita
Nakushitemo torimodosu kimi wo
I will never leave you
| mixer82 said: Some quick tips for high school survival.. -don't take insults to heart, but don't ignore them compleatly either. honestly look at yourself and see if they are valid, and if they are, if you care if they are valid or not. high school lasts 4 years in most places then it really stops mattering in a fuck of a hurry, you gotta be you and you gotta happy with that person. If you are happy with you, let everyoe that doesn't like it piss up a rope, you won't know them forever. -if you want the shit to stop, DO NOT IGNORE IT. you act like a victim you get treated like a victim, i'm not saying firebomb cars here, but at some point digging in your heals and saying enough is required. -that being said, pick your battles and make sure you fight the ones you have a chance of winning, not the ones your going to get your ass handed to you in(either phiscaly of verbaly) walking away isn't always wrong, it's only worng if you always do it. -in verbal battles less is always more. i find a good deadpan look and something along the lines of " and i give a fuck about what you think why?" is a good all purpose answer. you start running your mouth there's a good chance a lot of shit is coming back at you. -if you know any personly flaws in your attacker, by all means go for the jugular, but cut clean and sharp. her boy friend dumped her? if you spent more time with his dick in your mouth then with shit coming out of it you'd still have a bf. Parents got/ getting a divorce? smile and say it's cause she tore them apart. again stay deadpan and act like it means nothing at all to you personaly, Just the facts ma'am. -make promises not theats, if you say something make damn sure you can back it up -if you start it, finish it, thats all there is to it. As you can proably tell confidince is 95 % of this stratigy. you are going to lose some of the time but as long as you dig in and don't make it easy for people they will stop, usaly sooner rather then later. bullys like easy marks that they can beat around, if your not an easy mark they will most times find softer pery. on rare ocasions they will seek challange in you, and thats your play, i don't know you so i can't give you specific advice there. Remeber Highschool ends, make the best of it and fuck em if they can't take a joke. |
You know I really think this is some of the best advice I have gotten on vgchartz. Your input is appreciated, and god bless.
Just make friends and get an alliance going :P. Defend each other and you should be good.