Advice on insulting people.

[mixer82]

Some quick tips for high school survival..
-don't take insults to heart, but don't ignore them compleatly either. honestly look at yourself and see if they are valid, and if they are, if you care if they are valid or not. high school lasts 4 years in most places then it really stops mattering in a fuck of a hurry, you gotta be you and you gotta happy with that person. If you are happy with you, let everyoe that doesn't like it piss up a rope, you won't know them forever.
-if you want the shit to stop, DO NOT IGNORE IT. you act like a victim you get treated like a victim, i'm not saying firebomb cars here, but at some point digging in your heals and saying enough is required.
-that being said, pick your battles and make sure you fight the ones you have a chance of winning, not the ones your going to get your ass handed to you in(either phiscaly of verbaly) walking away isn't always wrong, it's only worng if you always do it.
-in verbal battles less is always more. i find a good deadpan look and something along the lines of " and i give a fuck about what you think why?" is a good all purpose answer. you start running your mouth there's a good chance a lot of shit is coming back at you.
-if you know any personly flaws in your attacker, by all means go for the jugular, but cut clean and sharp. her boy friend dumped her? if you spent more time with his dick in your mouth then with shit coming out of it you'd still have a bf. Parents got/ getting a divorce? smile and say it's cause she tore them apart. again stay deadpan and act like it means nothing at all to you personaly, Just the facts ma'am.
-make promises not theats, if you say something make damn sure you can back it up
-if you start it, finish it, thats all there is to it.

As you can proably tell confidince is 95 % of this stratigy. you are going to lose some of the time but as long as you dig in and don't make it easy for people they will stop, usaly sooner rather then later. bullys like easy marks that they can beat around, if your not an easy mark they will most times find softer pery. on rare ocasions they will seek challange in you, and thats your play, i don't know you so i can't give you specific advice there.

Remeber Highschool ends, make the best of it and fuck em if they can't take a joke.