I had the same experience as John Lucas. The sole difference is that I saw that hate coming, but I didn't expect to see it back everywhere in 2005 when I got back.
In my time of SNES and Megadrive (Genesis) in Europe, there was no such hatred between gamers... except in the press. The videogame press was a nest of fanboys full (I mean at least one every page) of attacks against the "others". It started in the computers games press, and continued in the console games press. I remember stopping my subscription to some general gaming press, because I couldn't stand it anymore: the thing was littered with fanboys attacks every page.
That's when I started to despise games "journalists", and it got even worse when it went to the Internet, as they were even saying outright lies then. Lots of reviews were obviously paid too.
Hell, I'm a fanboy too, but just a RPG (very specific ones at that) fanboy, which is why I did have an usual suite of consoles (SNES, PS1, GBA, DS, GC) and that's why I have a Wii and I'll get a PS3 with BC (I didn't have a PS2, would not have time to play all these games anyway, even if I take only RPG).
And when I got back in 2005, it was worse than when I quit, having infected even the gamers. Sad, really ... I think the most shocking was the reactions I see everywhere to the Wii, and the ones that I still see nowadays. It never ceases to amaze me at how much hatred people keep inside them.