How do you want to notice personality first at all? It's not something you can see or know right away. Even if you first see a person when they are acting out on a single trait of their personality, it's not very conclusive at all. You have to get to know them first and noticing what they look like just happens before that.

IMO, nothing wrong with noticing or looking for features you find attractive, it's only bad when you base everything on that given the opportunity to hang out with that person more. And assuming this thread asks towards lets say a more romantic involvement with said person, you will look for the attractive features in their looks for a long time.

You can become really attracted to someone who you don't find appealing at first but that takes time and usually goes through friendship until you are so comfortable around them to dismiss looks entirely, or at least a few conversations. You won't be attracted to a completely unappealing person you don't know.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LNQU-tVSuw4

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what i meant was that, even though i see people (obviously) when i first meet them, the thing i NOTICE first is just their general attitude. i dunno. its weird eh. but if youre tlaking about physically, then their teeth when they talk and the eyes. and probably arms.

I understand what you mean trashleg, the first thing I notice about a person is the attitude or the vibe they give off... Most people give off the same vibe, most the time, unless they're in a bad mood or something.

If I'm close I usually notice their scent. If someone wears too much deoderant or body spray I really hate that... If someone can smell you from three feet away I think that's wearing too much. I never wear more than enough to cover up my armpit stink, I can't even smell my deoderant unless I take my shirt off. I hate it when dudes wear so much body spray you can smell them from five feet away. It kills my sensitive nose... Women though, they usually wear nice flowery crap, I don't mind if I can smell them...

Visually, the first thing I notice on a person is their face, hair, and eyes. If I can't see their face, I usually check out their body shape, arms, hands, and legs. Then it's the ass, and feet if they're wearing open toed shoes.

Well, I use Bath & Body Works cologne (yes, they sell men's cologne) and body wash (I use whatever my sister has in the bathroom, so she doesn't mind me using it), so I want to smell nice for a girl. I HATE that AXE Body Spray; how can girls possibly like that on a guy? It's a sickening smell. I smell like evergreen forests or mountain mist.

I have lady co-workers at the daycare who say I smell good. Even the little girls notice me smelling nice, and then they fight over me when they want to help me prepare lunch/snack, take the laundry (for their sleeping mats), or when they want me to read a story on the floor.

Here's what one little girl said to me last winter:

Girl: Mr. Adam! I want you to come over to my house tonight!
Me: Why?
Girl: Because you smell GOOD!!

Whether there a woman or a man

Facial features. If a lady cares about herself, she'll probably keep her face in an attractive manner. The skin is also a reflection of how well her diet is- her teeth show her dental hygiene- and a well applied set of make up shows that she knows what pleases her.

(i wanted to say boobs but the passage above is more classy) :p

I appreciate that.

How she looks between her legs.

Hmmm there isn't anything I notice first in peculiar...

If someone has amazing eyes, hair or anything else I'd tend to look at that feature the most. There isn't a certain feature that makes me more attracted than others. So generally speaking, it's the overall look, unless that person has something very special about them.