JMan said: ^^ Absolutely true. When I was 8, I vandalized a house. When I was 18 I tormented somebody in school for the whole year (this is putting it lightly). These are some of the things I did that I look back and say "man, was I stupid."
Here's the difference, sqrl. When I tell people those stories, I also qualify it with "and I regret having done that. It was stupid of me and if I knew then what I knew now, I wouldn't have done it." I have learned from my experience, and have become a more honest person as a result.
I don't see one ounce of regret in what you claim to have done. You posted that as if you were proud of what you accomplished, just as the OP did. If you feel as I do, that it was wrong, then why not say so? You did now admit you felt guilty, that's good enough for me. To get rid of the guilt, do something to counterbalance what you did. edit: If you don't want to be judged, don't brag about getting away with theft. |
So because you don't like the way I told my story I got to hear your opinion on how I should lead my life? Because I "posted that as if" you jumped to a conclusion and decided to lecture me? Seriously get over yourself, not everybody has to lead their life with the same value system you do. In reality I told my story as if it were a story and not a lecture, I told my story without trying to tell the OP how he should feel about what he did. If I say "man I really regretted what I did blah blah" i am telling him that he should too...sort of like what you are doing. But in reality I think its his job to determine if what he did was right and I think people like you need to realise that you don't know the person on the other end of the keyboard and to sit their and tell them what they should of done or how you feel bad is taking the position of the pompous asshole who wants you to know how much better they are. Even if your intentions are good you will get the reaction I am giving right now.
But in any case you are wrong. What I did is not theft, its not entirely honest either but its not theft. In this case the guy was pretty much ignoring me which is why the situation came about in the first place. I stood in the store for probably 15 minutes before somebody came out, when he did start to help me he took forever and the things unfolded as I specified previously. As soon as he handed me the console he was already turning around and walking into the back room.
Aside from the fact that I was stunned by his stupidity, he was being a complete ass and hardly doing his job. And when he had walked away after giving me my change the 2nd time I tried to stop him, I even rang the stupid bell on the door to get him to come back out. The third time I was just completely stunned. So if at that moment I decided "fuck him" and walked out, then sure it was dishonest and you may not have done it but as I said, I don't care what you would have done.
I did it my way, and to be honest I doubt I thought about it for more than 30 seconds. If you think I am a horrible person then please just shut up and let me be a horrible person in all my awful rotteness, because at the end of the day I live by my morals not yours and I measure my daily dose of guilt by my standards not yours.