akuma587 on 27 April 2009
This got off topic quick. Another good method to prevent quick orgasms is super-oxygenating your blood. See the difference between getting aroused and ejaculating is that one involves the parasympathetic nervous system (your relaxed state) and the other involves your sympathetic nervous system (your fight/flight state - or in this case fuck state).
Breathing deeply and keeping the oxygen circulating through your blood stream puts your body in a more relaxed state. You are less likely to reach that more heightened state where your nervous system goes into its sympathetic mode and thus you are less likely to orgasm.
Another problem is that sometimes guys concentrate so much on not orgasming that it can make it overly noticeable to your partner and make their experience less enjoyable and thus meaning you have to work harder. It can make you more likely to orgasm sometimes to as you are too busy focusing on that rather than just letting your body relax. So the Bowie method can also be important and effective.
I have heard that thinking about other things while having sex to take your mind off having an orgasm can decrease the potency of your orgasms overall and make them less enjoyable, but I can't give you any kind of numbers or data on that.
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