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ctk495 said:
Flow said:
Oasis is awesome, does she like it too?

 

 

Not sure but who doesn't love oasis? I'll try to get her mail.

 

Good point, lol.




Flow -"The important is to pwn other ppl"

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So here is the plan tommorow I'll talk to her about oasis we are having chemistry class tommorow so we'll I'll talk to music with her yayy :) and try to get her mail.
@blazinhead89
hehehe thanks



In other news, I got owned today. I found out this girl I have been obsessed with for the last few weeks has a boyfriend. We hit it off so well the first day we got to know each other, and had the most interesting conversation for over an hour and a half.

Not to mention she was completely acting like she was interested in me. If I would talk to someone else she would stay quiet and just kind of sit there looking kind of pouty/sad, she was extremely inviting in terms of body language and everything else, and she was really interested in what I had to say. That is the difference between guys and girls, that girls can do something like that and not actually be into a guy. Either that or she is a tease, but I won't badmouth her because she actually has good taste in music, movies, etc., which is more than I can say about 95% of girls.

The funny thing is I even turned down a date with another girl who WAS interested in me because I was more interested in this girl. Oh well, its not like that other girl was anything special. But I did get kind of screwed anyway you look at it.

The key thing to know about going after girls is that you will fail, many, many times. Its not always your fault, and every now and then you don't screw it up, but from my own experience there are far more screw ups than successes.



We had two bags of grass, seventy-five pellets of mescaline, five sheets of high-powered blotter acid, a salt shaker half full of cocaine, a whole galaxy of multi-colored uppers, downers, screamers, laughers…Also a quart of tequila, a quart of rum, a case of beer, a pint of raw ether and two dozen amyls.  The only thing that really worried me was the ether.  There is nothing in the world more helpless and irresponsible and depraved than a man in the depths of an ether binge. –Raoul Duke

It is hard to shed anything but crocodile tears over White House speechwriter Patrick Buchanan's tragic analysis of the Nixon debacle. "It's like Sisyphus," he said. "We rolled the rock all the way up the mountain...and it rolled right back down on us...."  Neither Sisyphus nor the commander of the Light Brigade nor Pat Buchanan had the time or any real inclination to question what they were doing...a martyr, to the bitter end, to a "flawed" cause and a narrow, atavistic concept of conservative politics that has done more damage to itself and the country in less than six years than its liberal enemies could have done in two or three decades. -Hunter S. Thompson

I tend to find that men who aren't oblivious to my interest who have a girlfriend tend to mention that girlfriend in conversation pretty quickly.

Do other chicks do that thing with not mentioning the boyfriend frequently? I've heard this happen to a few other dudes before, I find it sort of ridiculous.



[2:08:58 am] Moongoddess256: being asian makes you naturally good at ddr
[2:09:22 am] gnizmo: its a weird genetic thing
[2:09:30 am] gnizmo: goes back to hunting giant crabs in feudal Japan

Moongoddess256 said:
I tend to find that men who aren't oblivious to my interest who have a girlfriend tend to mention that girlfriend in conversation pretty quickly.

Do other chicks do that thing with not mentioning the boyfriend frequently? I've heard this happen to a few other dudes before, I find it sort of ridiculous.

More often than they should.  At least things like Facebook have made it easier to spy on people and avoid those awkward, "I have a boyfriend" moments.  But I can think of five examples off the top of my head after lengthy social foreplay where I asked a girl out to do something and she told me she had a boyfriend.  Even worse is when they do go out with you AND THEN tell you they have a boyfriend.

I think part of it is that girls, for some reason that I have yet to fully comprehend, don't realize that at least 75% (probably more) of the time a guy spends a great deal of time talking to a girl he is interested in her.  Guys know this about other guys.  Its in their blood.  They know when a guy is interested in another girl.  Some girls do realize it, and others realize it but just don't say anything because they like attention.  But way more girls than I would expect simply have a hard time picking up on when a guy is hitting on them.

I think it is that girls kind of have faith that guys and girls can be friends, whereas most guys have abandoned that idea long ago, and the only girls they have as friends are 1) Ones they couldn't hook up with and are now friends with, 2) Ones who they are required to be friends with through social circumstances, 3) Ones that already have boyfriends.  I get along with girls very well and have some very close girl friends, but every one of them fits into one of those three categories.

 



We had two bags of grass, seventy-five pellets of mescaline, five sheets of high-powered blotter acid, a salt shaker half full of cocaine, a whole galaxy of multi-colored uppers, downers, screamers, laughers…Also a quart of tequila, a quart of rum, a case of beer, a pint of raw ether and two dozen amyls.  The only thing that really worried me was the ether.  There is nothing in the world more helpless and irresponsible and depraved than a man in the depths of an ether binge. –Raoul Duke

It is hard to shed anything but crocodile tears over White House speechwriter Patrick Buchanan's tragic analysis of the Nixon debacle. "It's like Sisyphus," he said. "We rolled the rock all the way up the mountain...and it rolled right back down on us...."  Neither Sisyphus nor the commander of the Light Brigade nor Pat Buchanan had the time or any real inclination to question what they were doing...a martyr, to the bitter end, to a "flawed" cause and a narrow, atavistic concept of conservative politics that has done more damage to itself and the country in less than six years than its liberal enemies could have done in two or three decades. -Hunter S. Thompson

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I always have the same thought when I am at my work... After work I grab some beer or my gf and I don't have that feeling :);






akuma587 said:
Moongoddess256 said:
I tend to find that men who aren't oblivious to my interest who have a girlfriend tend to mention that girlfriend in conversation pretty quickly.

Do other chicks do that thing with not mentioning the boyfriend frequently? I've heard this happen to a few other dudes before, I find it sort of ridiculous.

More often than they should. At least things like Facebook have made it easier to spy on people and avoid those awkward, "I have a boyfriend" moments. But I can think of five examples off the top of my head after lengthy social foreplay where I asked a girl out to do something and she told me she had a boyfriend. Even worse is when they do go out with you AND THEN tell you they have a boyfriend.

I think part of it is that girls, for some reason that I have yet to fully comprehend, don't realize that at least 75% (probably more) of the time a guy spends a great deal of time talking to a girl he is interested in her. Guys know this about other guys. Its in their blood. They know when a guy is interested in another girl. Some girls do realize it, and others realize it but just don't say anything because they like attention. But way more girls than I would expect simply have a hard time picking up on when a guy is hitting on them.

I think it is that girls kind of have faith that guys and girls can be friends, whereas most guys have abandoned that idea long ago, and the only girls they have as friends are 1) Ones they couldn't hook up with and are now friends with, 2) Ones who they are required to be friends with through social circumstances, 3) Ones that already have boyfriends. I get along with girls very well and have some very close girl friends, but every one of them fits into one of those three categories.

 

 

oh shit. I guess I fall into the "oblivious" category then. I'm one of those girls that believes in being friends with guys :( Guess that explains my frustration that most guys take my wanting to be friends as me making a move on them.



[2:08:58 am] Moongoddess256: being asian makes you naturally good at ddr
[2:09:22 am] gnizmo: its a weird genetic thing
[2:09:30 am] gnizmo: goes back to hunting giant crabs in feudal Japan

Moongoddess256 said:
akuma587 said:
Moongoddess256 said:
I tend to find that men who aren't oblivious to my interest who have a girlfriend tend to mention that girlfriend in conversation pretty quickly.

Do other chicks do that thing with not mentioning the boyfriend frequently? I've heard this happen to a few other dudes before, I find it sort of ridiculous.

More often than they should. At least things like Facebook have made it easier to spy on people and avoid those awkward, "I have a boyfriend" moments. But I can think of five examples off the top of my head after lengthy social foreplay where I asked a girl out to do something and she told me she had a boyfriend. Even worse is when they do go out with you AND THEN tell you they have a boyfriend.

I think part of it is that girls, for some reason that I have yet to fully comprehend, don't realize that at least 75% (probably more) of the time a guy spends a great deal of time talking to a girl he is interested in her. Guys know this about other guys. Its in their blood. They know when a guy is interested in another girl. Some girls do realize it, and others realize it but just don't say anything because they like attention. But way more girls than I would expect simply have a hard time picking up on when a guy is hitting on them.

I think it is that girls kind of have faith that guys and girls can be friends, whereas most guys have abandoned that idea long ago, and the only girls they have as friends are 1) Ones they couldn't hook up with and are now friends with, 2) Ones who they are required to be friends with through social circumstances, 3) Ones that already have boyfriends. I get along with girls very well and have some very close girl friends, but every one of them fits into one of those three categories.

 

 

oh shit. I guess I fall into the "oblivious" category then. I'm one of those girls that believes in being friends with guys :( Guess that explains my frustration that most guys take my wanting to be friends as me making a move on them.

Its fine, men have a different basic psychology than women.  Look at a male dog and a female dog.  Which one tries to hump the shit out of anything that moves?  Which one will tear up furniture and destroy things for no good reason?  Which one barks like hell just because it can?  This is one of the reasons why guys and girls have a hard time understanding each other, because their basic visceral drives, thought processes, and other priorties are slightly to extremely different.  Throw that in with the fact that ever since first grade boys are blue and girls are pink along with every other kind of socio-sexual reinforcement you can imagine and you're just asking for trouble.

But everything I said is true.  And I even LIKE being friends with girls since I find most guys pretty oafish.  Talking about sports is like travelling to the Sixth Circle of Hell for me.  Its the lowest common denominator of male bonding, and I absolutely hate it.  But even girls who I am close friends with I often think of sexually unless they are in the friends based off social circumstances category.

Guys really can't control it, even if they want to.  I fully realize this, so sometimes I just keep my mouth shut for the sake of a friendship, but you underestimate how pervasive the male sex drive is.  Honestly, it can be quite a pain in the ass.  And I don't even consider myself that sexually driven of a guy compared to a lot of guys I know.  We're just hard-wired.



We had two bags of grass, seventy-five pellets of mescaline, five sheets of high-powered blotter acid, a salt shaker half full of cocaine, a whole galaxy of multi-colored uppers, downers, screamers, laughers…Also a quart of tequila, a quart of rum, a case of beer, a pint of raw ether and two dozen amyls.  The only thing that really worried me was the ether.  There is nothing in the world more helpless and irresponsible and depraved than a man in the depths of an ether binge. –Raoul Duke

It is hard to shed anything but crocodile tears over White House speechwriter Patrick Buchanan's tragic analysis of the Nixon debacle. "It's like Sisyphus," he said. "We rolled the rock all the way up the mountain...and it rolled right back down on us...."  Neither Sisyphus nor the commander of the Light Brigade nor Pat Buchanan had the time or any real inclination to question what they were doing...a martyr, to the bitter end, to a "flawed" cause and a narrow, atavistic concept of conservative politics that has done more damage to itself and the country in less than six years than its liberal enemies could have done in two or three decades. -Hunter S. Thompson

akuma587 said:
In other news, I got owned today. I found out this girl I have been obsessed with for the last few weeks has a boyfriend. We hit it off so well the first day we got to know each other, and had the most interesting conversation for over an hour and a half.

Not to mention she was completely acting like she was interested in me. If I would talk to someone else she would stay quiet and just kind of sit there looking kind of pouty/sad, she was extremely inviting in terms of body language and everything else, and she was really interested in what I had to say. That is the difference between guys and girls, that girls can do something like that and not actually be into a guy. Either that or she is a tease, but I won't badmouth her because she actually has good taste in music, movies, etc., which is more than I can say about 95% of girls.

The funny thing is I even turned down a date with another girl who WAS interested in me because I was more interested in this girl. Oh well, its not like that other girl was anything special. But I did get kind of screwed anyway you look at it.

The key thing to know about going after girls is that you will fail, many, many times. Its not always your fault, and every now and then you don't screw it up, but from my own experience there are far more screw ups than successes.

 

Sometimes they do it just to boost their ego and remember they can have a man anyway she wants, just for fun. Sometimes she is not that interested in her boyfriend but can't, don't or won't break up. Sometimes, well... her boyfriend isn't a problem, but i wouldn't advise it...

Hell, compromised men do these things too. It sucks that you turned down another date, hope you have luck with her.




Flow -"The important is to pwn other ppl"

Hey guys I don't know if I should give up I think there are some other guys interested in her but at the same time what if she is into me and I waste an important chance? By the way lol kirby you were right there were some guys telling her "I want you candy" lol I laughed I don't know if they did it as a joke.Anyway she seems to be fairly popular but she is in the same year as I am I have her in some of my classes but we don't longer sit together :( it only happend once. Should I give up on her or get on trying.By the way I ask her on facebook what was he msn but she hasn't reply yet I'll wait this weekend if she replies and gives me her msn then I'll keep on trying to get to now her if she doesn't then I'll just forget about this and try to look for someone else.Also why do most guys have younger gf's?why do girls tend to look for older guys?