OK I did a couple things. I adjusted some router settings. Router is a wired Linksys Cable/DSL Router w/ 4-port switch, model BEFSR41.
UPnP Forwarding: I used the default settings and assigned an IP Address.
DMZ: enabled and entered same IP address.
Went on PS3 did manual internet config and used the default gateway, with the new IP address from UPnP and DMZ.
So far I can play the PS3 through the router without issue. Ill need to play more to make sure its stable, but so far so good.
If anyone needs more details shoot me a message and I'll try to help.
EDIT:
With my new router settings its better than before, but still have the lost connection from time to time.