Getting asses grabbed isnt that bad, you just accept it, it happens a lot. People go to clubs to have a fun time and alot of people go to have sex/ get off with people, its by no means nice but if you go somewhere knowing it is likely to happen its a bit silly complaining about it.

When ive been to gay clubs ive had my penis stared and when im in straight clubs iv had my ass grabbed, iv been going out to clubs since i was sixteen its just something that you come to accept.

Not bing attractive to other people because you are fat is not something that you should be bothered about. Some girls dont find me attractive because i am slim and they prefer muscley guys but i dont say "how dare you say that to me!"

I can understand being angry when someone says something like "hey fat ass you are ugly". People have the right to not find somone attractive, it isnt being a pig.

Attraction is based on senses, smell, taste, looks, and feel. Its only our nature biologically to find the most "fit" biologically, being fat increases risk of cancer, heart disease, increases risk of diabetes and reduces chance of pregnancy. There is nothing 'good' about being fat but thats not to say there is anything wrong with it.

So i would not judge people for not finding you attractive if you are actuaully fat, in most cases it is an individuals choice, so they should just live with it or try to change.

++ Hating a man for something another man has done is very silly, I know two girls who have been raped and it was crushing for them. Neither of them hate men and I am very happy that they dont because both are in stable relationships.

fat people dont consider themselves attractive, so it hard for others to say that they are.

 thats what im talking about lol. i dont no bout a size 16 tho lol

Hmmm, strange thread this is. Completely derailed it has.

To answer original question: Because they're not.

it goes back to our earliest ancestors:

Fat people are unhealthier and sometimes lazier
Skiny people did things (like hunt) and were healthier


Which one would you rather have as a partner in the stone age?

And we are a far cry from our stone age days, so why would that matter?

 Back then they didn't have intelligent conversations and communication was fairly primitive.  Now, there are far more things to do and enjoy in a person as our brains and lives have changed.

 And the definition of fat is just a bit on ones opinion.  I could date someone that I think is "average" and cute as heck, even though by many peoples standards she would be considered fat.

Just to clarify, that model is a size 16, if you aren't sure.

I have absolutely no doubt that 95 to 99% of all physical violence on this planet is caused by men. What do you think is happening right now in Darfur or any other war places?

I recommend this book to anyone who claimed that "hey, women rape men as well": http://www.jackholland.net/prejudice.php

And on topic:
I wished people would stop posting pictures of extremely obese people to prove their point ("would you go out with a girl THAT fat? Do you want HER on your lap?"). Childish argumentation.

Unfortunately in modern western society even ladies with only a few pounds more than the "ideal" weight are being looked at by many as "what a fatty". BTW: I bet there are more big guys in western countries than ladies.

Stop trying to be "edgy" or whatever the hell it is you are trying to do. Its ridiculous.