It isn't society, fat chicks are just really fucking UGLY! Does anyone find these ladies attractive? Even a little bit? 

It all depends on what you consider to be fat in all honesty. I'm no Brad Pitt, and I'm a bigger guy, but I'm not disgustingly huge by any means. BMI is BS too, since it doesn't take into account frame size, bone structure, muscle mass, etc. It just goes by height and weight. According to that, I would be classified as morbidly obese, however I am not that big.

I've dated women big, small, in between. I prefer my women to have a little meat on them and some of the nicest women you could ever meet are bigger. They could lose the weight if they worked at it, and they'd look just as good big or small.

There are so many here that are younger and think that "look" is all that matters when it comes to being attracted to a woman. I've found women who are in the 150-180lb range (usually like 5'2"-5'6") that are incredibly fun in the bed, kitchen, wherever we can get it on. They can be more themselves and not try to stick to some silly "standard" of look to please others, and are more open when it comes to sex. The most painful sex I've had was with a size 2 girl and she was so tiny I thought I was going to break her (Keep in mind at this time I was 6'4" and about 205lbs and looked great and was in great shape) and ended up that she was so skinny that she bruised my junk up really bad. That's not exactly what I would call fun.

I'm all about personality and what type of person they are. Being a bitch or just nasty is a huge turnoff and will make me dump even the hottest woman in the world. So what if she's a bit heavier, I'm not a wuss and can handle them on top of me and they can handle me on top of them. So many of you are going to end up alone and wonder why you can't find a great skinny girl when you should just be looking for a great woman that likes you for being you and you like for being herself. If she's skinny and hot, great. If she's bigger and still has a cute face and a great personality, that's great too. At least you found someone that you connect with. Back when I was many of your ages, (15-24) I looked towards the skinny and what society would coin as "Hot". I found that few of them were more interesting then a box full of rocks.

Open up your horizons kids, and like a woman for who she is, not because she happens to fit your "hotness" level. Someone could just be barely out of it (your hotness level), but be the most impressive and best woman you could ever find, but you'd shun them and any sort of hints they would pass out to you that they are interested in you because they aren't as hot as "so and so". Sooner or later you will grow up and understand it, or end up with someone who is hot, then they start to gain weight and not fit to your standards and you let them go because they gained some weight.

Moongoddess256 said: Zim said: Well moongoddess in that case you must hate women as well, as they also do sexual assault. There have been quite a lot of cases of women sexually assualting men. I've been felt up on a train by a women, i've had a woman come up to me in a club and just grab my ass. I mean seriously imagine if in a club a guy just walked up to a girl and grabbed her ass, he would probably get a slap from her and beaten up by the bouncers. There have also been much more severe cases of women raping men. The only reason it's more common for men to do it is because it is easier for them to do it.   thats just stupid. I don't count ass grabbing and feeling up as sexual assault. Since I've had some personal experience I'm having trouble not getting really angry at some internet person right now. I've had some dude grab a hold of me pull his cock out and try raping me and I ended up getting nasty bruises from the whole deal... I just got away because I was kicking and screaming enough. THATS sexual assault. And I only got away that time because I learned from the first time that pleading for them to stop doesn't work. I learned that I shouldn't be afraid of getting hurt by struggling because the emotional hurt is far worse than any physical pain he could do to me. I'd rather die than let someone rape me again and forever feel shame for not fighting hard enough to get away.

 Women do rape guys too.  It actually happens fairly often and is even more underported then regular rape because of fears to come foward because guys who are raped get made fun of because "they shouldn't complain" beacuse men should want to sleep with anyone.

Kyros said: , i've had a woman come up to me in a club and just grab my ass Oh you poor guy I hope you haven't been emotionally scared by it. Seriously geeez. BTW I don't think a secure woman should have any emotional scars by an action like that either but I would hope that she slaps him. That's different of course if she is in some form of dependency on the ass-grabber like an employee. Then its bad. But in a club: He grabs her ass, she slaps him in the face or gets him thrown out by the bouncers. No harm done. As a man you could throw your drink over her lol. Besides a woman raping a man should be pretty much impossible not only because of the normal difference of strength but also because of some differences in anatomy. PErhaps because of this difference we have no widespread pandemony of men safe houses. In the end sexual assault is terrible, rape is one of the worst criminal offenses and despicable. And exactly because of this we shouldn't mention it in one sentence with ass grabbing because that are two completely different things. And if a man starts complaining it gets a bit ridiculous.

No... that's actually horribly horribly wrong... as just about any highschool or college level course can tell you. Just because your stimulated doesn't mean you aren't being raped. Women can have orgasms while being raped as well.

Whatever, nerds.

This just means there's more fatties for Rubang.

oh come on. First she would have to be considerably stronger than the man. Then she would have to somehow stimulate you while you fight her off. And in the end she would somehow have to ride this rape home. I don't believe that this happens. The only thing I found with a small internet search was a guy passing out drunk on a couch and getting a blow-job in Norway unwanted which was considered rape by the court. Even if this should have happened I think its a complete oddity when compared to rape the other way round which is a serious crime and happens frequently.

Times have changed.

Being fat used to mean that one is wealthy enough to eat a lot, and not have to work it off immediately.

Being fat nowadays is usually a sign of unhealthy eating habits, or lack of excercise.

Foshoryuken said: It's all about personality, confidence and charm. Madskillz possesess all three and is happy. Props to my man.

Props to my dog fosho ... my chunky friend.

@ JJSeth - very interesting points. I'll reread it when I have more time, but an awesome post nonetheless. 

Attraction is usually based on the person you seem most fit to father your children or have your babies. It's a survival and reproductive thing not necessarily a personality thing. So a male that is overweight is not an ideal choice for a female cause their chances of contributing to a healthy baby and taking care of that baby are not as high as someone that's in fit shape.

However our society is really pushing out of this mode into more of making personality more important which seems less shallow but probably what nature intended. Oh well.

Zim said: Moongoddess256 said: Zim said: Well moongoddess in that case you must hate women as well, as they also do sexual assault. There have been quite a lot of cases of women sexually assualting men. I've been felt up on a train by a women, i've had a woman come up to me in a club and just grab my ass. I mean seriously imagine if in a club a guy just walked up to a girl and grabbed her ass, he would probably get a slap from her and beaten up by the bouncers. There have also been much more severe cases of women raping men. The only reason it's more common for men to do it is because it is easier for them to do it.   thats just stupid. I don't count ass grabbing and feeling up as sexual assault. Since I've had some personal experience I'm having trouble not getting really angry at some internet person right now. I've had some dude grab a hold of me pull his cock out and try raping me and I ended up getting nasty bruises from the whole deal... I just got away because I was kicking and screaming enough. THATS sexual assault. Well it's good to know that if a guy starts trying to finger you on a train you won't think it's sexual assualt. You will just think it's a bit of fun. Also like I said women have raped men as well.

An estimated 91% of victims of rape are female, 9% are male and 99% of offenders are male. (Bureau of Justice Statistics 1999)

 http://www2.ucsc.edu/rape-prevention/statistics.html

And ass grabbing is the same as fingering? Christ you are just trying to pick a fight aren't you? Go troll somewhere else.