Why don't we consider fat people attractive?

[jjseth]

It all depends on what you consider to be fat in all honesty. I'm no Brad Pitt, and I'm a bigger guy, but I'm not disgustingly huge by any means. BMI is BS too, since it doesn't take into account frame size, bone structure, muscle mass, etc. It just goes by height and weight. According to that, I would be classified as morbidly obese, however I am not that big.

I've dated women big, small, in between. I prefer my women to have a little meat on them and some of the nicest women you could ever meet are bigger. They could lose the weight if they worked at it, and they'd look just as good big or small.

There are so many here that are younger and think that "look" is all that matters when it comes to being attracted to a woman. I've found women who are in the 150-180lb range (usually like 5'2"-5'6") that are incredibly fun in the bed, kitchen, wherever we can get it on. They can be more themselves and not try to stick to some silly "standard" of look to please others, and are more open when it comes to sex. The most painful sex I've had was with a size 2 girl and she was so tiny I thought I was going to break her (Keep in mind at this time I was 6'4" and about 205lbs and looked great and was in great shape) and ended up that she was so skinny that she bruised my junk up really bad. That's not exactly what I would call fun.

I'm all about personality and what type of person they are. Being a bitch or just nasty is a huge turnoff and will make me dump even the hottest woman in the world. So what if she's a bit heavier, I'm not a wuss and can handle them on top of me and they can handle me on top of them. So many of you are going to end up alone and wonder why you can't find a great skinny girl when you should just be looking for a great woman that likes you for being you and you like for being herself. If she's skinny and hot, great. If she's bigger and still has a cute face and a great personality, that's great too. At least you found someone that you connect with. Back when I was many of your ages, (15-24) I looked towards the skinny and what society would coin as "Hot". I found that few of them were more interesting then a box full of rocks.

Open up your horizons kids, and like a woman for who she is, not because she happens to fit your "hotness" level. Someone could just be barely out of it (your hotness level), but be the most impressive and best woman you could ever find, but you'd shun them and any sort of hints they would pass out to you that they are interested in you because they aren't as hot as "so and so". Sooner or later you will grow up and understand it, or end up with someone who is hot, then they start to gain weight and not fit to your standards and you let them go because they gained some weight.