shavenferret said:
Zkuq said:
I'm sure treating people like this is going to win them over and bring us to a better world. |
How would you have liked to see gay people strung up if you lived during that time? How would you feel about some pastor that was spitting as he talked about how evil gay people are, giving a sermon that seeded hate from the foot washing baptists? So let me put it this way. I remember some of your old posts, and i know where your political sympathies lie. You support the lgbtq crowd because you have known many of them and have been close to them in your life. Think about those faces when you answer me. |
You're making a lot of assumptions about people, at least in this thread. In real life, I think I've known a total of one bisexual person and one I suspect to be either homosexual or bisexual, and that's it. I simply don't know a lot of people, so I also don't know a lot of minorities. I do support them, but the chances are not as zealously as you think. Based on our limited interactions about politics and the current political climate, I also suspect you categorize me way left of where I actually stand.
My grandma recently tried to lecture me about how Isreal, most likely including Palestine, belongs to the Jews. There were probably numerous more or less reasonable answers I could have given but probably would only have create division. Instead, I asked her what about the Palestinians that have lived there for hundreds of years and also call it their home. It clearly got her thinking and to admit she's not very familiar with the history. I don't think I won her over, but I also think I got a much better response than I would have, had I chosen a more direct approach. Maybe if we discussed the situation numerous more times, we could find some actual common ground, but I don't think there are easy wins there. You either take the wins you can get or try to take the big win and end up losing anyway.
Much of the time, people simply aren't easy to convince to change their minds. If you opt for an approach that calls for conflict, you'd better be ready for a fight if you actually want to achieve something, because the other party probably isn't giving up, so you need to subjugate them. That seems to be the Trump route, and for obvious reasons I really dislike it. I believe in treating people with respect, as hard as that can sometimes be (and I know I could sometimes do a better job at that, but I try my best).