I so wanna say the guy could be called a pervert but i dont wanna bully his fetish

Sexuality and gender are typically considered different things. So one could be bisexual and trans for example at the same time. So are you gay? And are you trans? Those are completely different questions that produce different categories in their answers.

I still want to point out that this is not my type of topic at all and that I don't beliefe in gender like it is typically understood.

Experimented with same sex during college years, but fell in love with my wife and been monogamous since. She's actually the only girl I've ever had sex with, so by default the best! She knows how to push my buttons / drive me crazy so no desire to experiment any further :) My fantasies are still often bi-sexual, I'm not picky when it comes to porn.

What you describe is autosexuality. Very common and cross-dressing is part of that. Or overlaps.

I'm a 32-foot mech. I hear that SRV-14-A Fei-Yen is kinda cute. I hope she helps me Jack on.