Nothing wrong with being a sad as in sad person. 

Sounds like a Seinfeld joke waiting to happen.

OP is basically what I'll be like 10 or so years into the future, I can relate to being a sad as in sad person  

Thats like an addiction for some folk, they could use some good people around them to make them a bit more hopefull about life.

From a young age I accepted there is no hope, only coping strategies that change absolutely nothing.
When things became too challenging, I had a pattern of quitting instead of seeing things through due to my a weak personality.
I rarely interact with anyone besides a few family members and I do not like to engage in conversations besides online forums.
I am an extreme introverted and listening is better than saying the wrong things.
I do not need to upgrade any evidence to prove how many miles I run or cycle.
That would give away too much information because I am a paranoid, insecure, extremely anxious person.

What women want starring Mel Gibson and having that ability to hear what women are thinking may be a good or bad way to know if women liked you, hated you or did not even acknowledge your existence. A Hollywood movie is not reality but it would make life a lot easier for the clueless guys out there.
I seriously believe physical looks are subjective and based on individual opinion. One person's hot/attractive is very likely to another person's ugly/unattractive.

There are certain personality traits that makes an individual more attractive... For instance, Women tend to like a man who is confident... Rather than someone who is always looking for a pity party.

And there are Physical traits that tend to be a turn on as well... I.E. Dimples. Muscles. Well groomed.

Obviously more superficial aspects like wealth, career path and so on plays a role as well for some individuals... I can guarantee you for example that men in uniform will get a second look more often than not.

You don't deserve pity for that outlook. You bring it all on yourself.

You can certainly change for the better... And that is entirely on you, no one else is going to do it for you.

Either way... I am starting to think this thread may have run it's course.

Stop thinking. E3 hasn't started yet. Need something to get us by until then.

Thread has been dramatic and it has  provided entertainment purposes and cringe worthiness. I needed a life transforming event like a term in the military or  join a religious organisation or ??? An experience  that can change a person's life. I never developed any discipline and no role models and so I just did what I did and lived off welfare.

I'm sorry that you're dumb (lots of women date dumb men), broke (this is a turnoff for most women), and have no job (goes hand in hand with being broke so again a turnoff).

There are plenty of losers on welfare that are in relationships. Hence the welfare state. Both of my parents left school at 15 and I am just a product of uneducated parents. On the other hand quality people with high education lead to better quality children that achieve great things in their lives. 

Being on welfare becomes a lifestyle and you have so much time on your hands. This thread has had it all drama, cringe worthiness, excuses and more excuses, denial and more denial.  Just do not do what I do and end up becoming a failure at life. Bad attitude and expecting life to magically come to me. I have never been willing to put in any hard work or effort into anything. I never knew what I wanted to do with my life and I never figured life out. No goals, no dreams and no purpose in life. 

A more  worthy name of this thread would have been: "How I have failed at life!"