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dahuman on 04 June 2017

You feel disgusted because you are straight, not because you hate gay people lol. Many girls don't have issues with lesbos but they hate the vag besides their own. It's pretty normal if you ask me. Think about it, some people think fucking somebody in the ass is super hot while other people hate that shit because shit comes out from it. Preferences man, preferences. I hate dicks and the only one I want to see is my own, even then I don't love it lol, dicks are ugly. Whatever.



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JWeinCom on 04 June 2017
TargaryenVers2 said:
JWeinCom said:

Noone's getting mad.  It's just kind of gross to me.  Generally seeing any two people I don't find sexually attractive engaging in some kind of sexual activity grosses me out.

That's why I said people are saying it's disgusting. My question is why make an entire thread and openly talk about it and singling it out so much. And also why does one get grossed out by those things as opposed to a straight couple. I don't get repulsed at all by straight  pda and neither do the vast majority of my gay friends, so why do so many straight people get grossed out by gay pda?

I don't really know, I just do.  I get why you don't want people saying the type of love you practice is gross, but does it ultimately matter if they're not preventing you from doing it?



Nem on 04 June 2017
DarthMetalliCube said:
Nem said:
Ok... i sighed at "agnostic" because agnostic isn't a thing. It's just beeing afraid of saying you're atheist because it's the same exact thing.
Anyways... people have an idea that beeing gay means people have to have butt sex. That is not the case. I think it's just someone trying to find the right person to live with, a good companion that makes them happy.

Not really.. Atheists have the FIRM belief that there unequivocally is no god. Agnostics accept the possibility of a god but don't act like we know one way or another. Basically thesism and atheism are both BELIEFS in the existance or NON existance of a god. Agnostics basically argue (with varying degrees) that both these beliefs are meaningless because we can't possibly know either way as humans.. Personally I believe there is SOMETHING out there higher than ourselves but disbelieve in the human image of a human-like "god", as to me it's a very simlistic explanation of the higher powers out there, and also believe religion as a whole is a complete sham. But basically I admit to having absolutely no idea. Atheists actually claim that they KNOW or at least believe there is nothing out there greater than outselves that created us. 

That is not true.

Atheists do not have a firm belief there is no God, they have lack of belief in one. Wich is the same as the so called "agnostic". By default if you don't believe something, you believe the opposite until proven otherwise. Because it is by concept impossible to prove the inexistance of something that doesn't exist.

Anyways, not the topic i just have to point up that people who say that are just confused.



TargaryenVers2 on 04 June 2017
JWeinCom said:
TargaryenVers2 said:

That's why I said people are saying it's disgusting. My question is why make an entire thread and openly talk about it and singling it out so much. And also why does one get grossed out by those things as opposed to a straight couple. I don't get repulsed at all by straight  pda and neither do the vast majority of my gay friends, so why do so many straight people get grossed out by gay pda?

I don't really know, I just do.  I get why you don't want people saying the type of love you practice is gross, but does it ultimately matter if they're not preventing you from doing it?

Technically no, but that mindset does cause people to want to prevent it or feel they have a right to say something or think less of me (I've seen threads from gay guys talk about how so many people come up to them when they do some form of harmless pda that would never happen to straight people). That mindset also causes people to think of gay people differently in life instead of seeing it as just another aspect of life. 

I just want the same rights and respect for doing what straight people do, no more and no less.



(Formerly RCTjunkie)

TargaryenVers2 on 04 June 2017
chakkra said:
TargaryenVers2 said:

You know you could've said it's not arousing instead of equating gay people to old or fat people, or basically "othering" us, that's where some of the offense is coming from. Gay people are not asking people to get aroused from them kissing or such, it's just the fact that there's still discussion about it on how gross people think it is that makes me not at ease. 

Well, there is nothing wrong with being fat, and nothing wrong with being old just like there is nothing wrong with being gay. So I dont see why that comparison would bother you.  And the only reason I mentioned that is because those are the things that gross me out, and I wanted to make the point that just because something instinctively gross you out doesnt mean you hate it.

Seems to me that you have an issue with the thread being created in the first place.  But I think it is a fair question from the OP.

Oh, and I'm bisexual btw.

I don't have an issue with OP or what he said per se, I just think it's frustraiting to still have to deal with people needing to comment or make it such a big deal one way or the other. I don't see threads regularly about fat or old people and how their pda grosses them out. You just ignore it and move on.



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JWeinCom on 04 June 2017
TargaryenVers2 said:
JWeinCom said:

I don't really know, I just do.  I get why you don't want people saying the type of love you practice is gross, but does it ultimately matter if they're not preventing you from doing it?

Technically no, but that mindset does cause people to want to prevent it or feel they have a right to say something or think less of me (I've seen threads from gay guys talk about how so many people come up to them when they do some form of harmless pda that would never happen to straight people). That mindset also causes people to think of gay people differently in life instead of seeing it as just another aspect of life. 

I just want the same rights and respect for doing what straight people do, no more and no less.

You can have the same respect and rights, but that doesn't mean people have to like seeing it.  If people are actually harassing people about it that's one thing, but if people just internally don't like it, there's really nothing to be done.  Trying to change people's impulse reaction to a sensory experience is a losing battle.



leedlelee on 04 June 2017

The idea of using sound tools freaks me out, but plenty of guys are in to that and it doesn't change my perception of them...
Not liking the idea or image of somebody sticking a rod into their penis doesn't mean I hate any man who enjoys the act...



Have a nice day...

TargaryenVers2 on 04 June 2017
JWeinCom said:
TargaryenVers2 said:

Technically no, but that mindset does cause people to want to prevent it or feel they have a right to say something or think less of me (I've seen threads from gay guys talk about how so many people come up to them when they do some form of harmless pda that would never happen to straight people). That mindset also causes people to think of gay people differently in life instead of seeing it as just another aspect of life. 

I just want the same rights and respect for doing what straight people do, no more and no less.

You can have the same respect and rights, but that doesn't mean people have to like seeing it.  If people are actually harassing people about it that's one thing, but if people just internally don't like it, there's really nothing to be done.  Trying to change people's impulse reaction to a sensory experience is a losing battle.

If that was the case, people's inpulses to be racist/sexist would still be fully intact in society and we would have a very different world



(Formerly RCTjunkie)

naruball on 04 June 2017
leedlelee said:
The idea of using sound tools freaks me out, but plenty of guys are in to that and it doesn't change my perception of them...
Not liking the idea or image of somebody sticking a rod into their penis doesn't mean I hate any man who enjoys the act...

Still not the same.

It's as if you see someone holding a phone and you immediately think of sound tools and you're freaked out. Or if every time you see a man, you picture him sticking a rod into his penis. He's not sticking a rod in front of you! For all you know, he's not into stick rods anywhere (some gay guys aren't even into anal). Yet certain people (homophobes, but not the harmful kind) can only think of gay sex when they see two men holding hands.



JWeinCom on 04 June 2017
TargaryenVers2 said:
JWeinCom said:

You can have the same respect and rights, but that doesn't mean people have to like seeing it.  If people are actually harassing people about it that's one thing, but if people just internally don't like it, there's really nothing to be done.  Trying to change people's impulse reaction to a sensory experience is a losing battle.

If that was the case, people's inpulses to be racist/sexist would still be fully intact in society and we would have a very different world

There is a difference between an intellectual belief, for example one group of people is inherently inferior, or a gut reaction, like ewww.