I feel nauseous looking at people who eat shit... i don't hate them... but i just look away everytime they start eating shit... it is not like they forced me to watch them. Now seeing people drink piss, surprisingly i am ok with it. Am I a shit hater? I dunno i just look away when some good friends does it...

I don't think there's anything wrong with having preferences, as long as you're not looking down on your fellow human beings. I personally don't care what people are doing romantically or sexually, assuming both parties are consenting and no abuse is involved. From what you describe, you might be overly empathetic and just imagining yourself in those situations. It sounds weird...but I don't think it's uncommon either; I'm definitely guilty of it too to a certain extent.

I will say though, I have little to no respect for the crowd that seems to think everyone needs to align with their same preferences. I've seen people in anime fandoms that will turn every established hetero pairing into a gay or lesbian one, but the second someone does the reverse, they get labelled as a homophobe or a "cis scumbag". It's part of why I swore off that repugnant cesspool of juvenile retardation that is Tumblr.

The patriarchal hierarchy seems to sum up what you are attempting to describe here.

My thoughts on homosexuality are the same as my thoughts on celery.  I find it gross, but if other people like it, that's fine.  And two girl celerys together are hot.

Why would one go through the effort to desensitize myselves?  I don't like watching gay people having sex, and I'm pretty sure most gay people don't want me to watch them having sex.

I've desensitized myself to things like disliking vegetables, because they are good for my health and desensitizing myself will benefit my life.  I don't see how forcing myself to like (or not dislike) watching two guys having gay sex will enhance my life or anyone else's in any way.

I totally get what you are saying in regards to the nauseated feeling you get. Except I am a gay guy and feel queasy if I see female 'parts'. I also feel weird seeing totally feminine guys at clubs and such. It must be a natural defense[?} mechanism. Not phobic, just not my thing. Just like being left handed, a certain percentage are just born that way. Always were and always will be...

I'm heterosexual myself and still find that while the concept of homosexuality is perfectly fine in my mind, I still internally (and sometimes externally) cringe when I see two men kissing. When I see two women kiss, I don't find it nearly as disturbing visually, which suggests it's more a male-to-male thing than a homosexuality thing.

The physical side of those relationships seems to bother me to some degree, though it has lessened. That's where my rational side and instinctive gut reactions meet, and I'm trying to be conscious of it and tone it down.

Liking something more than another thing is not discrimination. It's a preference. You can't like everything equally.

Nah, I dont think youre homophobic.  And I also think what you feel is very normal.

For example, I dont like watching two very fat or very old people going at it.  Does that mean that I hate fat or old people? Of course not!  I just dont wanna see them having sex.

Just like vivster, I find black girls rather unattractive. How does that make us racist?

I also prefer girls with blue eyes over girls with brown eyes. Does that mean I'm a nazi because I think the Aryan race is surperior?

Or it could be what you've been told to hate since a young age. It's not so much gays that parents and society hates but effeminate men. I used to hate them too until I realize just how stupid that was.