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aghh, I hate it when what is supposed to be "equal opportunities" turns the other way round

his answer seems perfectly right to me, should have added that it would help to find ways through which women might become interested in programming, and probably provide the industry with new ideas

however, as fireburn95 said, it is mostly biological so not much can be done



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I'm gonna have to side with the company on this one. Considering your friend's answer, it would not be unreasonable for xyz to assume that their prospective employee is a flaming homosexual, as he shows no interest in increasing the number of female coworkers.

Given how xyz would risk compromising the working environment for current, presumably heterosexual, employees as well as the company's image, I find that their decision to cut ties with your friend is sound.



I feel sorry for him, this stupid trend needs to stop, it's getting ridiculous and completely doing the opposite of what they "seek".



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fireburn95 said:


Subjects are graduated onto young pupils, you cannot force them into a direction. The whole point of primary and secondary school (dunno US equivelant grades) is to let pupils experience all subjects, and see what they click with. Every girl uses a computer, and does ICT stuff on there, and so does every boy. If more boys choose ICT-based careers than girls consistently, one could argue there is a biological favouring to such fields to gender. More women are in nursing and health care, probably due to many women having natural caring instincts because of the ability to carry a baby. That's why saying 'promoting IT to girls' is a squib because you also have every other industry who wants to promote their industry to all students.

And how is a work environment not favoured to women? Are you actually saying companies should put special things in there for women. Many women would actually be offended by that. Women aren't incapable of working in an environment new to them.
And treatment and respect should be for all people in every jobs, not just women.

We don't. We all have our beliefs and ideologies. There are ideologies that I disagree with, and agree with. So disagreeing with modern feminism is not a reason to lose a job, and is actually highly illegal to fire someone because of their ideology, or lack thereof.

"Everyone benefits..." Really? Is that true, is that scientific proven? I benefit when the people around me are competent and skilled, not whether half of them have penises and half of them have vaginas.

And finally, you think it's fair that someone skilled at a job may lose out to that job because a company hires someone to up their metrics. That is certainly illegal in the UK, and I assume USA too, and is unfair to those who work their asses of to get a career they love and lose it out because they were born in the wrong skin color or with the wrong sex chromosomes.


I basically agree with everything you said exept for this part. We have not studied gender issues and relations long enough to differentiate with certainty between nature vs. nurture on these Topics.

I would argue that the reason a large amout of female students when presented with computer sience still wouldn't be as interested as boys, is because of their home invironment. Because 'it's something that girls don't like to do' is a reinforced stereotype in many parents heads to this date. The struggle for equality has not been going on long enough to erase centuries of cultural identity and gender stereotypes. I'm not even talking about something that is done with bad intent or even conciously. It's as simple as calling your little girl to help you build a computer, while relating how things work, thus fostering an early interest, vs. refrainig from doing so because you would just bore her. A home invironment that does not trust a girl with technical knowlegde will probably result in a woman with a lack of interest in technology just as much as a boy that did not get to do any domestic work would probably grow into a man less than inclined to go into a nursing profession.

While bringing the subjects to students as early as kindergarden or primary school is a good step, they usually cannot reverse behaviour patterns learned at home, earlier in life.

And on the subject of the gender inequality in nursing professions an intersting tidbid is perhaps that, higher pay correlates directly with the percantage of men found in the professions. In my country secondary school teachers, which are among highest payed in the wider field of nursing and education are about 50/50 men to women. Primary school teachers get lower wages than that and there is a higher percentage of women among them. Kindergarden teachers get payed less than that and have an overwhelmingly female demographic. Similar result can be found in the health/nursing sector.

When asked what would make these professions more attractive to men, the overwhelming anwer was simply, better payment. It wasn't some natural inclanation that kept the men from working in these fields, in fact many would have liked to, but they felt like their work wasn't valued enough. This suggests that historically women are trained to be content with lesser payment. This is in the process of being rectified with higher payments across the board being fought for, but it's a long process.

 

On the topic of your friend, as others have said, if it really is how you say and he was suggested to leave based solely on that statement that would be wrong.

But there are so many factors at play (not in the least that this is a second hand story, from an offended party, that we don't know the other side of) that's it's hard to make a judgement call. As others have suggested he should probably inquire friendly why exactly he is being fired.



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fireburn95 said:

The technology industry is large and ever growing and their is a lot of room for everyone to join the party. Majoring in computer science can be difficult so it requires a lot of preparation and dedication to achieve greater heights. With that in mind, I truely believe that anyone who is interested enough to pursue this career should really give it a try, and it could result in fresh new ideas for the industry which is a win-win, and we should encourage it from the offset throughout primary and higher education.

...say what? And this friend is a coder? I think he should reconsider his career path and try politics because this answer is bullshieting if I ever saw, not the meaning of it but the way it expresses a thought in 100 words that should be 5 words. If I was the boss and he gave me this  answer I would hire him but assign to wood chopping.



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Tachikoma said:
I was asked the same recently, as a woman I said "if you're hiring for gender instead of skill I'm working for the wrong company it seems.

Pissed off my evaluator immensely, they forwarded my case to executive level, who re-interviewed me and asked if I'd like to rephrase my answer.
I said yes and handed him my notice.

Incentives and polarization to force a gender balance in jobs women clearly are rarely interested in, is a slap to the face of any man or woman who worked their ass off to get the same position that is now being seemingly handed out with ease so long as you at least identify as a woman and can fulfill a quota.

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fireburn95 said:

Ok quick context, he is doing an internship/placement at a major, blue-collar tech organisation in the UK.
Fired is probably not the right word, but it was suggested he does not continue past his 1 month probation.
He and I both do not give into this third-wave feminism 'made up stats' and 'oppression' bullshit.

Ok, company xyz, (I will call them) had a one month review. My friend is a top marks student, one hell of a programmer and being in the same year as me, makes me mother bleeping jealous of him. (Don't worry i'm still learning.)

He was doing fine, did his work, passed his university exams with flying colours, easily got the job at xyz, and was going places. They asked him a few questions which he confidently answered, then came up the next question (not sic mind you but along the lines):

How important do you think it is that we get more women in the tech workplace?

Now, as a believer of equality of oppurtunity for everyone based solely on their merits, he answered this. Note that elaboration is usually required in these answers, so they were expecting also a 'how do we do this' etc. Also, there's only one objective answer to this question, so it is kind of pointless asking anyway because no one is going to flat out say 'not very important'.

Now his answer was reasoned and though out, and along the lines of (again, not sic)

The technology industry is large and ever growing and their is a lot of room for everyone to join the party. Majoring in computer science can be difficult so it requires a lot of preparation and dedication to achieve greater heights. With that in mind, I truely believe that anyone who is interested enough to pursue this career should really give it a try, and it could result in fresh new ideas for the industry which is a win-win, and we should encourage it from the offset throughout primary and higher education.

Note how he avoided pretty much saying what he wanted to "It's important that we get good, quality people regardless of gender or race into the industry", to be fair he did a good job without going against his morals but the interviewer pretty much knew what he was about then, but he got told immediately after that question that he is subject to a review, and later, he will not proceed past his months probation.

Personally, I don't think you can be judged on a very stupid question in an interview. I mean, it's important that we get more, good people into the industry. Grabbing a bunch of women and shoving them into an industry just for the sake of having a close to 1:1 ratio rather than them being interested is ridiculous. Do you think he was unfairly dismissed based on the above or was he unreasonable in thinking so?

Please share the company name. As an IT person, I would like to avoid ever being subjected to such incompetence.



What was the circumstances of the interview in which the question was asked? Was it something that all internship/placement people expect to go through, or was this interview out of the ordinary? I wonder if there is something more to this.



hard to believe thats the reason... maybe he didn't fit in the workplace.. maybe he should have said he would like to have more oppertunities to bang women.. lesser qualified person who fits in >>>> super highly qualified person who no ones likes..



 

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