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maybe I could go meet a girl and sart my own family, but what if im wrong? what if that doesnt solve my problems? I dont want so put my problems onto someone else should I do that. I dont want them to feel so detached as I do, and what if I did that and still didnt feel towards them as I should?



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Brutalyst said:
maybe I could go meet a girl and sart my own family, but what if im wrong? what if that doesnt solve my problems? I dont want so put my problems onto someone else should I do that. I dont want them to feel so detached as I do, and what if I did that and still didnt feel towards them as I should?


If you're really worried about yourself right now, it might not be the best time to start a family, bc you wont be your best any way you look at it.  See a counselor.



perhaps I should go and see a shrink,maybe whats wrong with me can be fixed if I discuss it with someone with experience in such a field.

I do appreciate the feedback I have received, if nothing else it has made me see that im not some kind of psycho, I just have some serious problems I need to discuss with a professional



The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.

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NobleTeam360 said:
Oh and minus the impulse to kill.

Im not sure if you're trolling me or not. I have no desire to kill people or hurt them, in fact I would say sometimes the opposite, but random people. Not those I should care about, such as seeing people suffering (random people)  that does make me feel hurt and remorse, I even donated to charities because of it. But when I look at those I should feel that affection for, its lost, I cant find it.

 

I have even looked at people and thought what would they look like if I peeled all their skin back, see the real them, but I would never act on such a thought, I go out of my way to block it from my mind.

My parents divorced when I was young, and though I went on to live with my Dad the relationship is somewhat strained. Could that be the cause im my lack of feelings for those close to me?

It's possible. A lack of love growing up can make an individual less able to express or feel certain emotions.

How old are you now?

You don't need to be worried. If I were you I'd talk to a professional (psychologist or psychiatrist) and see if they can help. They deal with people's problems all day every day.



You need someone else in your life. Do you feel alone? You don't have any siblings? Perhaps get a girlfriend?



    

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Ur a deep thinker which is an good trait. Everyone is broken in some respects. Ur fine "not that it matters to u at theend of the day"



Lastly, I wanted to say that whether broken or not, it doesn't really matter. The important thing is having the best life possible, bc in the end we're all competing against ourselves. What my friends do is irrelevant to my own life. And having a happy life is difficult, sone of us need some extra help. That's fine, and if you're one of those people, well, it takes a big man to say that.

Just be honest and dont worry about feeling ashamed when you find a therapist, they aren't there to judge and if anything, having one is a luxury. Also, be as upfront as possible, bc a lot of these disorders sound really similar but it's just bad intel that you can't take advantage of, if you're misdiagnosed, so be honest... Good luck, this is my last post here, I'm going to go troll somewhere now. And let us know when you get it all figured out.



I don't know... There are some people that have the same thoughts. I guess you should try to keep those thoughts out of your head as best as you can. If you can't, oh well. You could also try to bond more with the people in your life, or meet new people (Doesn't have to be a woman. It can be a friend)



You sound just like me two years ago.


The solution for me was to not hang around people I dislike on a daily basis. Graduating fixed this issue.



You might have a personality disorder such as schizoid personality, autism or psychopath.