The body language stuff actually makes me laugh. Most of it is porn movie cliché to showcase attraction.
You see, since males are still expected to initiate courtship, when girls decide to showcase interest, their flirting attempts often fall flat on the face. It's just too weird, or too subtle, for most guys to notice.
From personal experience, besides the poor flirting, if a girl is interested on you she will:
1 - Ask stuff about your life on return when you're talking
2 - Compliment on your personality / mindset (a fairly common giveaway)
3 - Mention a quality of yours is a rare find nowadays
4 - Remember stuff about your conversations that you don't
5 - Contact you (some will, some won't)
It's important to remember atraction isn't a switch you turn on and off. Most girls that actually answer to your messages, calls etc. are actually giving a shot on knowing you better. It's up to you to make the most of it, and go for it if it's the case.
PS. Ask her out.











