I say: if it will help cure the fear, drink once or twice, but it is never a good thing to rely on this to get courage. However, read his posts, he needs to get this handled, fast. You say: he need the right girl, and I agree, but being afraid of women makes him the wrong guy. First he get his shit  together, then he will be ready for the right girl.

Yeah, I guess I'm not the best person to give advice, considering that I've never had a girlfriend myself.

I understand, and I get it how this can be scary, but this is the kind of stuff that has to be taken care of as soon as it is possible. How old are you?

15, so I'm too young to really be doing that kind of stuff.

21 years old here. I'm not afraid of talking to women once I know them, but I have the problem of having big standards. I could have done it by know, but with not very attractive girls. Very stupid reason I know (especially considering I'm not that attractive at all). And my hot girl friends only see me as well...a friend.

I guess you could say I'm the definition of "friendzone".

For sure, you will be fine them.

Almost 23. Virgin by choice. My last girlfriend broke up with me because she wanted sex and I was like NO! I'm saving myself for marriage.

Now it's just really awkward whenever I see her at parties or even on the road lol

I used to think like that and it is a really bad idea. When you get a girl that really makes you go crazy you will probably look like a fool and do a lousy job on bed. I say, start with girls that do not intimidate you much and get some experience. Then, when you go to the hottest, you know what you are doing. This and, learn how to put condoms, pratice this when you get hard. You gotta know how to use one when the girl is ready and willing.

If you are a really horny type, masturbate once some hours before having sex with the hot girl, this will prevent premature ejaculation.

I'm a virgin, two weeks counts right?

If only the world was a big harem anime. lol