naruball said:
I think most people simply don't get it if something doesn't affect them. As someone who grew up been made fun of for being gay, who constantly kept hearing from the media that gays are perverts, whose parents thought that gay equalled doing drugs or being a prostitute, hearing my friends say "oh that's gay" for something that is terrible annoys me beyond words. You might think that words are meaningless, but just because you have a tougher skin or most likely because those words have nothing to do with you, it doesn't mean that others aren't affected. You might dislike LGBT communities or organizations but it's thanks to them that many gay men have significantly better lives over the years. It's like joking about AIDS or cancer. If you or your family/close friends have/had neither, it's no big deal. If you've went through it and it was hell, it might affect you differently. Sure, some times I say the "r" word without thinking and then I realize that the brother of a friend of the group is mentally challenged. Well, it might be an inconvenience, but since I know that it bothers them, I avoid it. I much rather feel like I have less freedom than hurt people even unintentionally.
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Hmmm, didn't think about it that way. Obviously I didn't mean to offend you. To be likened to druggies and prostitutes just because of sexual orientation by anyone is terrible, let alone your parents. There are some positives in political correctness, considering 20-30 years ago it was thought that gay people were the ones to blame for AIDS, things have definitely come a long way since. I'm not anti-LGBT, I just don't like the constant judging and prejudices that rise from abusing political correctness, which is not a knock specifically at LGBT organizations/communities. The abuse of political correctness occurs mostly in a racial or religious context, and not a sexual orientation context.
Interesting you bring up cancer. I see calling someone a cancer (often done in sports to explain premadonnas, for example, Terrell Owens is a team cancer) is just the same as saying "oh, the bus came 2 minutes early, that's so gay". Either use of the word shouldn't be deemed as being inconsiderate or homophobic I don't personally think.