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the_lonely_gamer_123 on 31 August 2013
jake_the_fake1 said:
Dude as much as you may not want too, you will have cut off all ties with this woman, because if you stay the course you will have your heart broken multiple times...it's only a matter of time before she starts seeing other men.

It's one of those things in life, if she wanted to you she would NOT have broken up with you, the fact she broke up with you means in her head she doesn't want you and has designated you the friendship zone...a zone which from experience is impossible to escape.

Trust me you do not want that power over you, she's become the Eye of Sauron to you, if you stay she will unwillingly manipulate you, and in your corruption you will comply with each and every task she demands of you whether you know it or not....it's a female thing, best to see the signs and get the fuck out before you cross the vent horizon.

Don't get me wrong, men and woman can be friends, however, if there is chemistry and history it can only end in heart break for one of the two parties, in this case it will most likely be you.

I am a firm believer that if you get dumped, as much as it may pains you, your better off in the long run moving on. Given time you will indeed find another more deserving woman who will appreciate and want what you have to offer.

No man should ever put up with this friend zone bullshit, just saying.

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snyps on 31 August 2013

Dn't be a nice guy. Tease her.. push buttons for smiles. She wants a confident guy that will treat her like she thinks she deserves, rough.


edit: you're best move is date a girl who she's competitive with. She'll be pissed.. and obsessed with you.



radiantshadow92 on 31 August 2013

stop talking to her for a while since she doesnt want u to date u...she will come running for u if wut u say is true



allblue on 31 August 2013

Depends on the background that she grew up in, culture, experiences from her past (relationships, growing up) etc matters. Not trying to be racist here, sounds like too much drama from her side of things, is she asian perhaps?



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Alby_da_Wolf on 31 August 2013

My rule is: when in doubt, fuck her in the 2nd channel.



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Cobretti2 on 31 August 2013
bananaking21 said:
crissindahouse said:
i don't want to sound bad but i think this is the typical friend zone case. she really likes you but only as friend. if you really like her you should try your luck or let it go. otherwise you will be her "best friend" for years and will always have the desire for more.


the guy is 15 years old. she is likely the same age. all he needs to do is make her jealous, thats it, make her jealous and keep doing so for a while, she will come for him. i cant believe anyone hasnt even told him this. friendzone is just a myth


Agreed.

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NiKKoM on 31 August 2013

She probably lost her virginity to some dude while you guys broke up and she doesn't want to hurt your feelings.. Or make you think she's a slut..

*please don't cry after reading this



 

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ArnoldRimmer on 31 August 2013
anthony64641 said:

she says she feels like she 'doesnt deserve this'... At first i completely didn't understand what she meant by this.

Let's switch on our womenspeak<->english translators:

"I don't deserve you" = "You don't deserve me"
"You're too good for me" = "I'm too good for you"
"Let's stay friends" = "I don't want to be considered the cold-hearted slut you hate and try to get revenge for breaking your heart (or ending the relationship) - it's much better for me if you become a useful and harmless charming idiot who does everything to please me because he secretly still has a crush on me."

As many others have pointed out, you're currently lost in the friend zone. But what others have said is also correct: You can get out of the friend zone - but not by being the nice, charming idiot who'd do anything to please her. If you could instead manage to make her jealous, it would change everything.



kljesta64 on 31 August 2013

date another girl and brake up with her and this one will suck you dry.



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