NolSinkler said: stop wanting to get it back. it's gone. nothing you can do about it. |
lol i know that but thanks for the info anyway...
NolSinkler said: stop wanting to get it back. it's gone. nothing you can do about it. |
lol i know that but thanks for the info anyway...
wfz said: Reading this made me feel like she was the one with the penis. She went hard on you? :P I'm sorry to hear about your regret. If it's any consolation, you are the luckier gender since nothing changes for you after you have sex for the first time. Just take it as a fun experience and move on. I understand your feeling of wanting to wait for the right girl, but what's done is done. I would only suggest that you work on your self control, as I'm sure you don't want to end up cheating on someone because another girl came onto you. |
Sure man i wouldnt cheat a girl im a good guy...
Well she had experience for sure she did almost everything she ended up with me im still sore LOL
Argh_College said: Well than she Said "if im going to hard on you just say ok" we start having sex and i was pretty nervous. |
Tehe.
Anyway, I wouldn't worry about it. Virginity is over-rated, sex is just sex, no matter what number partner it is with.
Not that I'm condoning a polygamous "STI's for everyone!" attitude, I just feel like it shouldn't be a big issue.
Plus, like someone else mentioned, it's a bigger deal for a woman losing her virginity :P
Bristow9091 said:
Yup, ever heard the term "popping the cherry"? ;) Also Argh, good man, welcome to adulthood! Don't worry, she'll do it again, and you could always recreate the situation (Alone together with a film on) to see if it was a fluke or not, lol :P |
Well for what i´ve spoke with her she said next time i will be better and its normal for the 1st time i didnt know much things... :o
Thanks for the great posts of some of you, really helpfull. Great guys!
Argh_College said:
Sure man i wouldnt cheat a girl im a good guy... Well she had experience for sure she did almost everything she ended up with me im still sore LOL |
Ah, have you ever heard of the term blue balls? If you get really turned on but never release your sperm, you will feel extremely sensitive and it will feel painful (even for a number of days) until you release your built up sperm.
If this is what you're feeling, I recommend taking care of the issue as soon as possible. :P
wfz said:
Ah, have you ever heard of the term blue balls? If you get really turned on but never release your sperm, you will feel extremely sensitive and it will feel painful (even for a number of days) until you release your built up sperm. If this is what you're feeling, I recommend taking care of the issue as soon as possible. :P |
Shit i guess that what is happening -.-
Bristow9091 said:
Well there you go, there IS a next time! Start watching some porn for techniques ;) |
if i have sex with her again should i try Oral ? they do that all the time on Porn...
Argh_College said:
Shit i guess that what is happening -.- |
The good news is that your next ejaculation will be one of the most satisfying you've ever felt. The pain goes away fairly quickly, too, which is awesome.
Next time be aware of this happening and take care of the issue and 1) ejaculate before you get intimate with her if you don't plan on having sex, or 2) go and finish yourself off alone if you don't ejaculate during sex (like what just happened).
You said you didn't even finish? Does that even count as losing your virginity? I vote no.
PS: Virginity is overrated, it doesn't really mean anything. You mention you wanted to keep/save it for a girlfriend, well nothing really changed. You just got some experience now, that's not a bad thing.
ohh my god....
Wait you are 21? like years? 21 years? This was 4 years overdue! I mean the first time is lame I know but it gets better much much better.