Jay520 said:
happydolphin said:
1.) Putting the "gay topic" out of it, I can understand that a person does not want to be in the company of an adult that decides to live a life they disagree with.
2.) I didn't say I admired him in everything, don't misconstrue. I was saying I admired his ability to respect his own convictions, that's all. Of all the virtues we don't see today, that is one of them. He may be wrong, but at least he did what he thought was right and did it in a deeply considered manner, at least that's how it seems.
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1.) Firstly, using the word 'decides' suggests that he diliberately became gay. That's debatable. Secondly, We're not talking about just any adult. We're talking about his son. How can you admire disownment because of something as trivial as a person's sexual orientation? Just because someone feels strongly about something doesn't mean it's right.
2.) There's a difference between respecting your own convictions and completely blocking off contact with someone because of it. I don't mind him disapproving of his son's lifestyle, but there's no reason to stop showing love and contact with him.
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1) @bold. Okay, that's why I followed Zappykin's "Putting the 'gay topic' out of it" note. @rest. I never said what he did was right, jeez jay did you even read my other posts (don't take this comment too badly, I know I'm dialoguing on a subtlety, an important one)? I just said, specifically, that I admired his ability to respect himself and what he felt was right, deep down inside of him.
2) I'm not saying I disagree. But better be true to himself than live a lie imho and say everything's alright.