IIIIITHE1IIIII said:
Cirio said:
Many people find the child marriage "questionable" because they don't know anything about it and it's intentions. This marriage was actually more benefitial for Aisha because she went from a regular girl to practically a Queen for the rest of her life. If people actually knew what the marriage was for and its intentions, they would stop using it as a constant attack on Islam.
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How do you know that she wanted to be married with a much older man? How do you know that she ended up happy? And if she didn't: Do you really think that they'd even consider to write about it in that Koran? And do you think that she'd dare to say "no" to this marriage?
Stop blaming the time difference. Some things never change. She could've been a slave as far as we know.
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Okay I'm understanding your position. Hopefully I can explain this to you so I can clear some of your confusion.
Aisha was happy with her marriage to Muhammad. She was actually extremely cocky and proud. Her marriage to Muhammad allowed her to do whatever she wanted because she was practically a Queen (like I said). She was also one of the first female leaders in Arabia, so this further boosted her cockiness. Aisha didn't write anything about herself in the Quran because the Quran is the word of God. The Haddith has stories written by Muhammad and Aisha in it and it was their own personal collection that others had no influence over. Aisha herself wrote most of the stories and she herself claimed everything I'm saying.
During the time of their marriage, Muhammad had become the most powerful individual in Arabia. EVERY woman wanted to marry him, so based on common sense, do you think Aisha would reject? Also you're mixing modern standards with standards of that era. During then, it wasn't the girl who chose who she got married to. It was her father who picked her husband (this was true in other non-muslim cultures too). Aisha was just lucky enough for the man to be Muhammad.
Finally, one of the first intentions of Islam (before prayers, before worship) was to abolish slavery and give equal rights to all individuals. This is because slavery was extremely common during that time. So no, Aisha was not a slave.
If you have any more questions/concerns, let me know. I'll be away from the computer for a bit so I might not reply until later.