I would argue that the fundamental assumption that Company A and Company B EXPECT to sell the exact same amount, even though it is acknowledged that one sells in many more territories than the other, is false.
That is, given that sales expectations are an educated guess (backed up by math of course but still just an estimation) there is inherent error in them. As the number of times that guess is repeated to gain world wide sales expectations, that error rate increases. Obviously Sony understands this, big global company and all, but since it is NOT likely that they arbitrarily pick a number, it is HIGHLY unlikely that their sales expectation department would kick out the exact SAME number that MS would. Remove the exactitude of similar sales from your argument and I think you can acknowledge how quickly global sales stocks could differ from each other.
Additionally, regional differences in distribution channels, import/export laws, ease of access and warehousing fees all lead to a distribution landscape that varies by territory. Again, I am SURE Sony understands this and has it under control, but those things absolutely contribute to how much/frequently you ship to your various distribution channels.
Finally you have to take into accounts periods of high demand to deal, such as the Holiday sales period, black Friday in the US, or increased demand around reductions in price: all these further skew the demand as retailers are more willing to have more product on hand when demand is high. These effects are similar for Sony and MS in the big markets, however they differ across the globe; by definition a company who distributed in more territories would be affected more by this fluctuation in demand.
The combination of these above factors suggests that the distribution landscape for a global company is extremely complex and that answers as black and white as your answer above OR the "myth" you describe are highly unlikely. Rather I believe that the truth lies somewhere in between and anyone's opinion of how close the truth is to either the "debunking" or the "myth" itself are colored by their personal bias.