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So I'm in quite a predicament, VGC.

Through a certain buddy of mine, I've acquired the knowledge, pictures, and facebook page of a very cute and interesting girl - her friend tried to pass her on to my buddy, not knowing that he's gay... being without a girlfriend and interested in one, I'm very keen on her - without going into details, let's just say that we match interests heavily.

Sadly, I do not know her friend, and if I were to contact her, it'd be very much out of the blue and... well... weird. I'd contact the friend, but she was only a one-time acquaintance of my buddy and I'm not sure I can reach her... however, I do not want to miss this chance, and I just have no idea how should I go about this.

Any advice? (and no, you can not haz pics)

edit: I sent her a massage on FB already, and now I'm just waiting on a reply. Telling me to gain confidence, etc etc etc is kinda useless now - read my prior posts on why I didn't straight up contact her right away, even though I can understand the sentiment. However, self-confidence is not something I frequently lack. It's just that I never had to go around meeting someone like that.



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Have your gay buddy arrange to meet her, then take his place. Then...



badgenome said:

Have your gay buddy arrange to meet her, then take his place. Then...

That plan didn't work out all that well last time =/



Xen said:
badgenome said:

Have your gay buddy arrange to meet her, then take his place. Then...

That plan didn't work out all that well last time =/

Yeah, but like I already told you, you're not supposed to say, "Hey, would you like some chloroform?" She doesn't know she wants it, remember!



^I didn't say that.
Wait, were you supposed to do that in the presence of her friends?



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Creepy you made a thread about it.



Let your gay friend take her out... then interupt them on their date and then say:

"Do you wanna go out with a real man"

if she stays with the gay you need to look in the mirror really good.... >_>

-edit-  i'm gonna be banned for this ain't I? >_>



 

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Xen said:
^I didn't say that.
Wait, were you supposed to do that in the presence of her friends?

Only if you bring enough chloroform form for everyone.



NiKKoM said:

Let your gay friend take her out... then interupt them on their date and then say:

"Do you wanna go out with a real man"

if she stays with the gay you need to look in the mirror really good.... >_>

-edit-  i'm gonna be banned for this ain't I? >_>

Too late, I already do that every morning, finishing with "DAMN I'M GORGEOUS!!1"

I even say 1. Really.

I could actually put Rol's advice to use, too.



Seriously, just message or start talking to her on Facebook.