Nothing wrong with the morning after pill or in some instances abortions, DEPENDING on the situation. Being a KID, with no direction, and thinking pregnancies are just unwanted toys you can just get rid of to the salvation army, or toss in the trash is bullshit.
No, I don't think sperm is a baby. I think when the sperm unites with the egg, and CREATES a baby, that you should buck up and take responsibility for what you've created. You don't want kids right now, both of you use some type of barrier to prevent a pregnancy, or ABSTAIN. The wife and I weren't ready when we had a baby, but we BECAME ready and did our best.
And no, you don't need to explain yourself to me, but don't air your dirty laundry on a public forum.